May I ask which horribly sexist/racist/homophobic comments you're referring to?

What "horribly sexist/racist/homophobic comments" are you referring to, exactly?

Many men are overcoming their social conditioning. Many women are also overcoming their social conditioning. Despite this, the social conditioning is still causing problems, and it needs to end.

I think it's shitty to blame men for feeling this way, frankly. We have been largely raised from birth to believe that we should provide. Whether that is "true" or not is a different story, but this is a constant message. You know how we all shake our heads at the social messages about beauty for women? This is…

Also, perhaps by not posting snarky articles shaming men for also being victims of patriarchy.

very telling that many of the comments on this story are more "welp, guess men are just insecure, immature sexist crybabies, LIKE I SUSPECTED" and not the (correct) interpretation that a patriarchal power structure has forced men for centuries to value themselves solely by their personal financial success.

This is patriarchy at work. This is what happens when you drill into men the idea that they’re supposed to be providers in a world with an increasingly egalitarian workplace. The best way to address it is to continue trying to normalize female professional success and male domesticity.

Speaking as a trans woman who spent a lot of her pre-transition life trying to "man-up," the feeling that you're supposed to be the provider in the family is something that can be pretty hard to get over. You're kinda beaten over the head with that message, and if you fail to live up to it, it can leave you feeling a…

Why does feminism have to antagonize and mock men all the time? Men are expected to have no vulnerabilities, this is an oppressive gender role. When men's vulnerabilities are exposed, such as feeling emasculated or being insecure about women making them "obsolete", that is a human emotion and gloating over it and…

They aren't trolling or playing dumb. They are right. There isn't anyone near him. If your car is pretty empty, what is wrong with spreading out?

I know it's weird, but I love the author's emphasis that the porcupine Haji enjoys is, indeed, dead.

Funny, all I see is peaness?

I'll defend the practice—some men, either due to age or disability or whatever, can't get erections on their own. They suffer. Their partners suffer. It's not just dudes who benefit from this. And even if only dudes benefit from this, it's still valid. It's bullshit that women's sexual and reproductive health is…

erectile disfunction can be devastating for all partners involved. I agree that women's reproductive health should be supported, but the answer isn't to deny men a possible solution to their own health challenges.

I don't think you understood my point. Honestly, in a conversation about childhood obesity, organic/nonorganic shouldn't even be part of the conversation. It muddies that waters because it doesn't really affect obesity. Once we can get shit set up so people can afford (in both money and time) to eat conventional…

Let's not conflate healthy food with organic food, especially in the childhood obesity discussion. Organic/non-organic really has no bearing. (And I don't know how to say this next part without sounding bitchy, but I assure you that's not the intention): If the probably-college-educated author of this piece can't…

If he doesn't have a platypus bill to go with that tell him to fuck right off.

Is it just laying around? Did he piss off the Mob?

Can this be a requirement for using a dating site? Like how everyone should work retail once to become a better customer?