You are pointing to something important, but I think it is that Rapp named names (and it was the name of a successful actor) and Witherspoon didn’t that makes part of the difference. If the aggressor was some random theatre guy who nobody heard of people wouldn’t care about this story either.

I agree with you. But maybe he’s changed and grown and these two crazy kids can make it work! (This is why I make terrible life choices even when I know better.)

Fellow nerdy teenaged girl who celebrity crushed on Ralph Fienes!

Are you sure it wasn’t age? I mean TH was early 20s when shit went down and Adams is early 40s now. And while Hollywood is known to have 20-something women play roles that should be played by 40-something women (ahem...Jennifer Lawrence...ahem), but having a 40-something play a 20-something doesn’t seem like their jam.

Were that true I would be way more religious.

I’m cheering for these two crazy kids!

I said that money helps. But my point is that money doesn’t guarantee success as a musician. Paris Hilton flopped as a musician, Jessica Simpson could not sustain a career as a pop star post Newlyweds, Hulk Hogan tried to buy his daughter a music career—I won’t swear to it, but I believe all of these people had far…

I said that money helps. But my point is that money doesn’t guarantee success as a musician. Paris Hilton flopped as a musician, Jessica Simpson could not sustain a career as a pop star post Newlyweds, Hulk Hogan tried to buy his daughter a music career—I won’t swear to it, but I believe all of these people had far…

1-I thought her father was a stockbroker, not music exec.

How does she not seem to be a good person? She seems generally nice, if somewhat petty and oblivious. Maybe I have low standards, but I think you can be petty and oblivious and still be a relatively decent human.

Yes to all of this!

Loved it. Loved the “I ❤️ TS”shirts. Thought the ending was hilarious.

And I’m representing for 31! Go 30-something broads who love T. Swift!

I’m still grieving the Arnett/Poehler divorce, so when Fox gave him shit about dating hot young things—talking about bringing them lunchables, I believe—she won me over!

I’m interested to hear the answer to these questions. I have a chronic illness and had creditors called on me because the insurance refused to pay for a valid claim (both the hospital and the insurance were in the wrong). I remember one particularly fraught conversation with the insurance company where I yelled at…

I’ve never been married and never had a partner die. But I grieve the loss of relationships incredibly slowly. So when people move on from divorces, breakups, and especially deaths quickly, I am shocked. I don’t think they are bad people, I just cannot process how it happens because it is so not how my mind works.

He seems lovely and I wish everybody well (for whatever random internet commenter wishes count for). But geez this feels so fast to me.

Quite possibly. But I also think insulting someone you don’t know is not quite necessary.

What I am trying to say is that she is deserving of anger. Everybody involved in this deserves anger. But I also think that one can do bad things without terrible intentions—they should still be called out, but I also think that process is difficult. But you are right that my position of privilege is what allows me to…

I’m in my 30s and I still do dumb and embarrassing shit, so yep. I’m not saying that she shouldn’t be held accountable, but I also understand that the process of being held accountable is probably going to be incredibly embarrassing and painful for her. She’ll get over it, but I still feel secondhand embarrassment for…