Games suck. It’s good you know what you want. You’ll feel better soon because luckily you haven’t invested too much time into him.

It’s absolutely good that he’s gone. A lot of guys play the numbers game, and because those numbers are so high due to tinder and the like, they’re out of there at the first sign of conflict, even if we don’t perceive it as conflict. They have a really low bar for red flags. But I’m generalizing about single men here…

Ghosting is shitty, but cancelling with a good reason and then not texting for a few days doesn’t seem like ghosting. A “do you still like me” text is a red flag for a lot of guys if you’re still in the getting to know each other stage, and if he’s already had to issue an apology within 4 dates, he may be feeling a…

The After Show did a montage of Jared talking about Rob Thomas. I thought Ashley saying her favorite band is Hanson was bad.

It seems as though Cubans are pretty chill about it because he even lit up in the semi-outdoor lobby of the resort and nobody said anything. The part that amazed me was that he took it through airport security. Although - full disclosure - I am a bit of a worrier. When I travel, I even switch purses because I’m…

I think you’re right about that mentality because he was travelling with his young sons and obviously thought there was no risk. I don’t get it. I mean, it’s just weed! I like to partake but when I go on vacation I don’t even think about it. It’s not like it’s heroin or something - you’re not going to get the shakes…

I went to Cuba for a destination wedding once (I’m Canadian), and there was a guy in the group who brought out a joint. I asked how the hell he found weed in Cuba when we just got off the plane a few hours ago, and he smiled and said he brought it with him. We all think he smuggled it in his ass.

I dug through my posts to find this thread and say that OF COURSE JARED’S FAVORITE MUSICIAN IS ROB THOMAS. That is all.

The first thing I do when I get home from work is change into yoga pants, a sports bra and a tank. It is my favorite part of the day.

Yoko is every first year art student.

The big thing she doesn’t know about him is that sometimes he eats ice cream before dinner - you’re supposed to eat ice cream after dinner, you silly goose!

I couldn’t watch the video because I’m in Canada, but I’m assuming they took all the worst parts of The Bachelor (the utter corniness and insincere “love” between people who don’t know each other) and none of the stuff worth watching (sexy, desperate people clawing each other to shreds for a man they don’t know).

Ashley certainly is an example of “what you see is what you get.” She can even be kind of funny between sobs, which is endearing. I don’t know much about Caila yet (I haven’t watched last night’s episode), but she made a good impression on me so she’s either cultivating an image for the cameras or is actually a chill…

Same! I’ve been enjoying recaps from Vulture and Ew, but don’t comment on those.

Jared has the personality of a medicated sloth

It’s amazing to me how emotionally immature reality show stars try to elicit sympathy while calling others “whore” (Ashley I.) and “way uglier than me” (one of the twins) through their tears. I’m enjoying every second of this social experiment and hope Jez will write more about it!

Everyone involved (except the rapist, of course) is allowed to do what they’re doing. Actions have consequences and it’s on them if they want to face the repercussions: Metzger can say the things he’s saying and hurt his career; Amy Schumer can employ him (hypothetically), shut out critics and lose fans and possibly…

Appreciate the tips!

Seriously, someone please talk about Bachelor in Paradise! I was hoping Jezebel would be recapping this show, but Vulture and Ew have been doing a pretty good job.

I wonder if these women have ever been to a fun party or if they think that parties are supposed to be like this.