I appreciate the advice!

I’m glad it worked for you. I thought Glow seemed accurate because it always gets my period days right and the peak days seem to coincide with my randiness (nope, still gross - I need a better word).

Good luck!

Thanks for the tip!

It was the least fun having sex I’ve ever had...

Thanks for this. I’m on month 6of using Glow. I hate buying ovulation tests because they’re so expensive, but now I don’t trust my app so I may go back to those. I also thought I could tell I was ovulating by how randy I was feeling (almost used the word “horny” but grossed myself out), but no luck yet. Just trying…

I’m happy you are free.

I’m so proud of you for leaving him! It’s an incredibly brave thing to do when you don’t know what life on your own will be like.

Mom, is that you? I have a lot of first-hand knowledge of manipulative behavior because of my dad. I got out of the house as soon as I was of age, but now my mom is the sole focus of his neuroses and so conditioned to be submissive that she’ll never leave. One thing I learned from their relationship is that it gets…

They also turn the tables and make it seems as though they are the actual victim so that the person they’re manipulating is constantly in debt to them for the “wrongs” they’ve perpetrated. Very basically something like this - “You’ve hurt my feelings with some abstract and perceived slight, so I’m right to not trust…

I’m sorry. It’s painful to watch a loved one be abused when they won’t/can’t help themselves and there’s nothing you can do. Feelings get complicated when you also love the person who’s abusing them. Your mom is very brave for taking the steps to leave him after so many years.

Thank you, sexy times coach! This is all good advice. I think option B is more us since we’ve long stopped talking about it anyway. I am glad that we didn’t end up going the pervy-couple-creeping-out-women-at-the-bar route. I’ve been the woman at the receiving end of that and it can be uncomfortable. Plus my husband’s…

I have very much enjoyed your insights into group sex. Stars all around. I hope someone hires you to be a group sex columnist. My husband and I used to entertain the idea of a threesome, but it seemed like difficult territory to navigate (finding a unicorn, not the actual sex). I was too shy to hit on girls but also…

I used to have a friend who would lecture me about how deodorant will give me cancer - while holding a cigarette.

Oh my god yes. I had similar “insights” when I was 12 and I was just as smug and annoying about them.

Her reductive and naive tweets make her sound out of touch. I feel like she’d throw a party and make everyone sit and listen to her shitty poetry.

“Political correctness,” the boogeyman under the bed of every person with literally nothing else to oppress them...

Thanks for this. I didn’t realize how little white eyeshadow I was wearing - I’m so embarrassed.

No ponytails? But there’s so much “business woman” stock footage in which a woman is wearing a suit and a slick ponytail.

She should start an affordable GHB line.