Me too. She obviously deserves criticism for the times she's made huge errors (and she definitely has), but ughhh I really REALLY want her to get it together because she has so much potential.

That seems to be the common theme — she is in a vaguely good direction, but is not very eloquent or thoughtful many times. I hope she can pull her shit together on the subject and lock down the problems in her videos, cause I love her music and I love what she seems to be trying to do, and I really want to like her…

That's exactly it. I was actually kind of okay with the fact that she specifically called out an instance of her own behavior that is troubling that she knows needs to be changed. That's how I'd prefer to interpret it, anyway.

I think she only got it half-right. Men are part of the problem, and guys reversing the trend by saying they prefer women "with meat on them" is a pretty obvious example of it. It's not about preferring X or Y, it's recognizing everything from A-Z as valid, period. Women can be their own worst enemy at times, but then…

That's exactly it! I think she's headed in the right direction and despite the problems with her Hard Out Here video, it's nice to have a song that is blatantly like, "IT'S KIND OF SHITTY TO BE A WOMAN SOMETIMES" instead of being coy. If she could just get it together, she could be a pretty awesome figure on the whole…

I don't think I understand that Lily Allen quote. She references how guys tell her what they prefer, but then talks about competition, which I took to mean her critiquing herself, as well, for feeling competitive with the thinner woman, but then says that men aren't the enemy. I just...I feel like I'm reading a word…

I've only read this single post by you, but you're also kind of a twat.

This exactly. Death doesn't erase what you leave behind — a piece of shit in life will remain a piece of shit after their passing.

Yes, why didn't these psychologically and physically abused people act like a mature stranger on the internet reading this from a completely detached perspective in hindsight? Piss off.

You know the answer to this, but you probably don't want to acknowledge it. I don't blame you — I don't either. :(

This is gorgeous, really pushing the 'fashion as art' thing. I would've gone apeshit if Gaga would have moved with this kind of aesthetic along side Artpop rather than repackaging Yoko Ono's passe leftovers.

Can we also talk about how Beez in the Trap was essentially a giant 'fuck you' to people who are trying to shit on her career? Not only is she a gigantically successful female rapper, but she's touring on top of it, more so than many of her male counterparts. Nicki's getting paid and for a damn good reason.

The only thing I'm living for right now is the promise of 40+ degree weather next week. And if it doesn't come, I'm peaceing out of this life for good.

"Oh my!"

I just got a heated blanket, myself, and it's been a lifesaver — best gift I've ever gotten, I think. I might take a page out of your book and get a pad for work, since the blanket is kind of cumbersome. If I had my way, work would pretty much just take place in a sauna :(

I have thyroiditis. At first the whole "haha I'm shivering nonstop" thing was kind of funny in a self-depreciating way to cope, but it's honestly starting to weigh me down mentally and depress me heavily, and nobody seems to want to turn the thermostat up anywhere no matter how much I beg. This winter has been awful,…

This sounds like poorly-written fanfiction. And probably is.

Jesus, and all this time I thought the condescending treatment from my male coworkers were due to latent sexist tendencies! Turns out that my lack of pubic hair signaled to the world that I'm just a little girl and I had no idea. Boy, is there egg on MY face.

Oh, just fuck off already. I wish I had something more poignant to say, but you're just not worth it.