I’m sorry that it happened to you, and the other woman seems like a dick. But yes, she doesn’t owe you anything, and I think that, someone who feels happy and commited doesn’t cheat. So yes, she is insecure and probably a mean person, but it doesn’t reflect on you. You have nothing to do with that, and your value is…

Have you been cheated on? She doesn’t owe Beyonce anything.

THE ATTENTION SHOULD ALWAYS BE ON THE PERSON WHO DECIDED TO CHEAT

I know I will get shot down for this, but here it goes:

I’m not exactly a fan of Pam Anderson’s, but I’ve only EVER heard that she was kind and gracious. It’s pleasant to hear that a celebrity is a decent person, because it makes me feel just glad for them that they found success.

I was on a small plane with Pam a few months ago! She grew up/still lives in Ladysmith, which is really close to Nanaimo. She was on my flight to Vancouver. I first noticed her because she was wearing a gorgeous ivory coat and I was lusting after it from behind. I ended up right behind her in the boarding line where…

‘All of her rescue dogs’ I love her. Anyone who is as kind to animals as she is must be a wonderful person.

I like comedy as a genre but I always thought most stand-up comedians were bullies. Some probably were bullied as kids and turned it around so now they’re the ones doing it, which is fine for them,I guess, but there’s often an undercurrent of hostility towards easy targets that’s unpleasant to me. An incident like the…

Wait are you really trying to use an example from how she interacts with her sisters? Sisterhood is its own special, brutal, beautiful thing. That’s like a whole other ball game.

That’s called: How those of us with sisters talk when they piss us off.

Signed
- EVERYONE WITH YOUNGER SISTERS EVER

I love my sister to pieces but she makes me wanna punch her in the face all the damn time.

I never watch those roasts.

I have friends who have worked with or encountered Pam Anderson at various times over the past 20+ years. Every single one of them said she was nice and gracious. The one that was a PA on one of her projects said that when she was stressed and obviously upset she just shut down. She didn’t want to talk to anyone and…

I have a friend that worked for a neighbor of Pam’s years back. She met Pam walking all of her rescue dogs and said she was the nicest lady ever.

It seems like he’s really nice to co-workers and people in general. I like it about him, too.

Agreed, but if she is actually suffering from the psychological damage of abuse (i.e. in denial and twisting her own internal thought process so as to not see it as abuse) then her comment makes sense in the saddest of ways. Not so much victim blaming as victim othering/distancing.

Kim Kardashian may be shallow and vain, but she’s never been unkind to people. The cruel mocking seems unnecessary. But then I suppose you need web traffic, and mocking her provides you with a ton of it! (I promise she can still get you clicks without reverting to full on asshole humiliating mean girl territory).

The Rock, rocks. This is classy of him and something about Pamela wants me to protect her, too.

I was coming here to say that - apparently it’s damaging to her image that people would think she would let herself be a victim... no, please, do try and be more insulting to victims of violence why don’t you?

Yep. I never let anybody hurt me and they still did. Also, the statement sounds like the kind of thing I would say when I didn't want to deal with other people's opinions on my abuse - it wasn't like that, it was just a misunderstanding, we're cool, and so on.

I understand her intent, but trying to convince people she wasn’t being abused by saying she would “never let [herself] be a victim,” is some serious victim-blaming BULLSHIT.