That really is a great point and I agree with it, sex isn't as important as our society makes it, and her sacrifice can't compare to his. He doesn't have the choice of being unfaithful.

This video truly overwhelmed me. The military uniform in the closet implies he’s a wounded vet. I also *love* the part where the handsome, able-bodied man gives her the once-over and she smiles back, showing us that she might daydream of an easier life, but her exhausting devotion is a conscious, constant choice. It…

Yes, unequivocally. However!! There is such an overwhelming deficit in our murder, DV, rape, overall victimization rates, it seems fair to accept a little bit of petulant, irreverent snark from women, does it not? While we acknowledge that it’s awful, is it really necessary to piss and moan and scold about te menz,…

This made me cry. Your words are beautiful.

Mark?! I'm legit crying, he's my love. This is like losing Lindy and Burt all over again.

Nonono please no not Mark no

Millihelennnnnnnn!!!!Nooooo!

Perfect! Exactly what I wasn't able to articulate.

There is no double standard. Women can’t (ok, unlikely) hold a man down and forcibly penetrate him over and over for years. Domestic abuse happens to men all the time, but let’s not bullshit ourselves. Women are the primary victims by a huge margin (true, lack of reporting because of bullshit masculinity expectations,…

But the years of domestic abuse and brutal anal rape? I wonder if you'd handle it gracefully. Don't fucking rape people and no one will chop off your cock.

Infidelity, no. Years of domestic violence including anal rape just before the incident? More understandable. Obviously I wish she had left him instead, but we don't know her circumstances. Abused women are often in great danger when they leave.

All the stars to you for being such an understanding lover. :)

Naomi has finally destroyed the aging painting in her attic, yay! Just so gorgeous and talented, these women. :)

I read in another article that the victim said she wanted to drop the charges because if he loses his job he’ll stop paying child support and she’ll lose her home and car. It’s maddening when victims don’t testify, but sometimes they’re still financially trapped. This judge is jaded and burned out, and needs to step…

That sounds divine, and use a cheese grater on your brown sugar brick. :)

Baby powder and Listerine, it works perfectly! Only for powdering my nose (bad color match, obv) but I was desperate, haha. Anything strongly alcohol based will work! *gasp* I’ll bet scotch would make a yummy smelling, lovely caramel shade! :)

Same! It's like I know it's probably gross, how could it not be, but it still works and when I need it, it's an emergency! And I can't be bothered to buy more.

And if you don't have alcohol, you can use Listerine and your compact powder will have a cool minty color and feel tingly on your face! Indeed, I am that cheap.

I’m 40, and recently came across an old blush at my grandma’s house from when I was in middle school. It goes on fine and looks great!

IT’SATEENYBABYPOSSUM!!! *throws up from love*