I meant NPH - have you seen the cake he made for halloween, Amy winehouse's corpse, and made a half assed apology about how it was "scary but gourmet?" and how he supports terry richardson openly? I can't stand people praising people in hollywood who are so horrible just because they did one nice thing.

Seriously. And what makes me angry is that so many people in the media and people I know make so many excuses to homophobia/racism/sexism. No one ever has any remote idea about transphobia and why it's wrong, it's always, "but this is Korea and that is America, this isn't America, this is how it is." If I hear someone…

What did you expect? I was born and raised in Korea for 20 years and moved away cause I couldn't stand how people just tolerate sexism, racism, and homophobia and act like things are changing when it's not. Gay relationships have been banned on TV for a long time and it's still not allowed to show any same sex…

No it's not. hahaha that makes me laugh.

I seriously think he's horrible.

He threw a halloween party after Amy Winehouse died, and displayed a cake that looked like a corpse and labelled it "Amy winehouse's corpse." I seriously got goosebumps when I saw that picture and read that, it's kind of beyond joke, I cannot imagine any human being who could think that is okay for a second is…

I seriously get creeped out whenever people like NPH cause what he did about Amy Winehouse in his halloween party. That and him loving Terry Richardson openly as if it doesn't count. All that makes me feel like he is a horrible person.

I seriously get creeped out whenever people like NPH cause what he did about Amy Winehouse in his halloween party. That and him loving Terry Richardson openly as if it doesn't count. All that makes me feel like he is a horrible person.

Agreed with everything you said there, but you did say on the original comment implying that he targeted Kesha since Perry "looks tough as nails." Toughness has nothing to do with why abusers choose their victims. As human beings we all have vulnerabilities, we all have insecurities, and to abusive people, it usually…

Should have said something. Yeah. Because you've been abused right? Because you know just how easy it is that people can just say it out loud. That's exactly why so many abused people have hard time speaking up for years. Because people like you always blame them even if it wasn't their fault. You are the reason why…

Exactly. And do we say this to men in hollywood who apparently 'promote this lifestyle'? Will this Johnny Chicago whatever say to Terry Richardson's BFF Jared Leto that he had it coming if someone molested him? Will he say it to the notorious "boys will be boys, blah" playboys in hollywood that they deserved to be…

Just because people are preyed upon and fall victims to abuse does not mean they weren't tough enough, or that they simply had weak willpower. I think we can really be done with that generalization.

That is a really well-thought out response and thank you for taking your time to write that - I agree that people automatically expects women to feel shame, guilt, or complicated emotions, and some people do, some people don't, and again, this is about letting people make their own decisions, letting people feel…

That's true - fiction does allow that. I think though, contrary to what we like to believe, many people cannot make the distinction. Most people who swoon over immoral characters, in my opinion, do actually constantly give passes to people who are immoral in real life, for the wrong reasons like "he is good looking"…

You're right about that, but now we KNOW he isn't a good person, and we no longer can pretend like we're operating in the dark. And all the characters in it are flawed and some are meaner than others, but not all of them are serial killers/school shooters, which I think is the worst out of them all. And to know all…

I mean, I get so uncomfortable when people keep romanticizing Tate just because he is wounded and attractive, which a lot of serial killers are. Just because you have a back story mean you can kill a bunch of people - and I don't want to romanticize that and be like, "but he loved Violet!" He is a school shooter and a…

Because nude pictures are nothing to be ashamed of? Because it's a part of people's private sexual lives?

That's like saying, why do people wear certain things and go to the party and get drunk when they know what's going to happen? etc. it is victim blaming. People should be allowed to take and upload all nudes they want. Tell people not to abuse that. Just like you'd tell rapist not to rape, not people to avoid being…

There are these things called "controversial debates" that most of my theology professors always address at the beginning of the semester, which are - rape, abortion, birth control, sexism(no women's ordination), homophobia.

Maybe that's because if they do that, they are accused of being "gay"? Also, I think perhaps that is because a man is always seen as owning his sexuality - no matter what, and in control of their bodies and sex, and they don't necessarily "need" to assert it. People believe them. There are also a lot of male musicians…