"But if I just pretend that racism doesn't exist, and that I can't see race, that means I'm the least racist, right?"

He doesn't need to read the Trayvon Martin Case coverage. He knows what he just wrote is complete bullshit.

Yeah, read the coverage of the Trayvon Martin case. It was said many times that because he was wearing a hoodie, he looked like a "thug".

I asked last week if white people could please go 1 fucking week without doing something embarrassing. Looks like this is not gonna be that week yet.

I admire your optimism, but white couples pretty much own the "annoying shit that goes viral shortly before turning into a book or movie deal" corner of the internet these days. I want these guys to fight the dumpster professor and his girlfriend who went to Europe in a steel cage death match.

Right? I'm sure a lot of what else was said was bad, and of course some of the topics they might talk about may not be relevant to her as a single, young Latina woman, but some of those topics are just the meat and potatoes of what you talk about with co-workers you aren't super close with.

A part of me hoped against hope that they would maybe be a multi ethnic group of friends rather than a real estate stock photo.

As far as big egos and entitlement goes, yes, those attitudes cross racial barriers in wealthy circles, but being a rich black person doesn't necessarily make you accepted into rich white circles. Rich black people are still profiled by police, they are still suspected of stealing, they still endure racism, etc. All…

Sure it's genetic, yet Nigerians are doing better than any ethnic group (including Asians) in the U.S. and black females are doing very well in education as well.

and when 50% of the population are men...

I'm not saying poor white people are the enemy. I'm saying that it's not a coincidence that the richest people in this country are white and a lot of poor people are POC. You can't talk about class without mentioning race in the United States. That argument would be better suited in countries like China or Nigeria…

"None of Hernández's revelations are too surprising if you've ever read the Times or anything about it"

Race and class are intersectional, not separate. A rich white man is more likely to give poor white men the opportunity to climb the social ladder than a poor person of color.

Oh, so you're saying that NYT's staff demographics match the general population? Show us the stats and then I guess your job will be done here.

The vaginal tightening thing wasn't even from a sexpert. It was from a Pilates instructor claiming that Pilates makes your vagina tighter. Great job finding a credible source there.

Guys like anything that ends in an orgasm, and if it involves little to no effort on our part so much the better so there is nothing to not like about receiving a handjob.

Right? Men don't call me back? Sir, after I got over all the lady-shame and learned to love myself and take what I needed without shame. It also meant I could enthusiastically explore and pleasure my partner without feeling dirty. Dare I say it, but women's lib is why I'm married.

Several guys I've been with have had zero interest in blow jobs, despite our culture's consensus that they are the greatest things on earth, so clearly you can't assume anything about your partner's preferences. I think the only valid "sex tip" that exists is "actually talk to your partner, like, with WORDS". Rocket…

My husband seems to think it's more a joy than a slog but I guess that's because we have a mature and honest sex life.

I just want to know how someone drew our cat for the image in this post. She spends half her time like that.