luckygoldfish
luckygoldfish
luckygoldfish

Me again—another thing I've seen three or four times...a brain injury changes one spouse's entire personality. I knew a couple where the husband had a brain injury and forgot who his wife even was. It was like he didn't know her. She tried to stay and take care of him but he became increasingly mean to her. I've

"Or one person being freaked out by the construct of marriage and acting out and the other person resenting it." — I have totally seen this. I grew up in a strict fundie sect where there was huge emphasis on getting married in college. Having been brought up with such strict rules, most of the people had had no

Its pretty grimm. I feel bad for divorced people because of how much pressure is put on them by our training and culture.

Thanks for sharing this. I left my husband at 24 and it was the best and hardest decision I ever made. From the outside, it seemed as if I was wholly to blame for the breakdown and as such I lost a lot of friends over it. I spent years believing that I was no good at relationships and that it was all my fault.

Maybe men should be mad that Sony thinks they're a bunch of mentally deficient hornballs.

I went into a little boutique salon that only sold off the rack. The saleswoman kept showing me this dress and talking about how much she loved it. When I finally caved and said "sure, I will try on the dress" she responded by saying "oh, this dress is much too small for you." After that, I bought my dress online.

Ah yes. I will never forget the day I looked down at my freakishly large hand and in a moment of clarity realized "I too, am a gay."

I think the end of the video kind of clears this up because the brunette lets loose, dances, and smiles and the other girl stops bumping her. I think her dancing was supposed to symbolize her escape from the oppressive standards of beauty that motivated her to pose, standing still throughout the rest of the video and

Except skinny women are still THE beauty ideal in our culture, and being tongue-in-cheekly referred to as a "skinny bitch" doesn't come anywhere near the level of degradation larger women (Meghan Trainor's size and legitimately fat women alike) face every day. This song, and "skinny shaming," are a non-issue in the

Just because they are in the video dancing does not mean they are props. They're her background dancers, she's dancing too, and theyre all dressed similarly and the dancers are obviously having fun.

It's like having the ultimate Mean Girl whispering in your ear all the time telling you you're worthless, that the world would be better off without you. But it lies. It lies more than any politician ever could. Depression is a fucking asshole.

I am 24. It feels like my depression has morphed into this whole other being, one that I have no idea how to understand just yet, as much as I try. I keep feeling as though, once I am in my 30s I will be a much more stable person, just a really positive feeling about that age. But for now it's all I can do to convince

[Editor's Note - "Pouring One Out" is not an effective method of birth control.]

It would be nice if my kid was a dateable chris pratt type...

Yeah, I'm not sure the writer would be all talking about slut shaming and whatnots if the genders had been swapped here.

Since when are people shocked by buttcheeks anymore? Her music is NOT for children.

Was pretty sure this was spam until I saw that the link is TRUSTED. Okay, seems legit.

This is unbelievably beautiful.

Whoa, whoa, whoa. She's not singing about having sex in the back of a limo; she's singing about giving a blow job in the back of a limo. If more teens started emulating her, teen pregnancy would actually decrease.