Huh. So I read that at first glance as 'perverse' rather than 'preserve'. Perverse surely sounds like a more readable blog >.>

"There's gotta be some middle ground here, because sex drives change throughout a marriage."

Because you made a good point and he didn't like it, so threw his toys out. Please, continue to debate calmly and reasonably and make good points. It makes people who lose their shit with you look really bad.

It was a fair comment - that was how the person you responded to chose to phrase it and what you picked up on. That's apparently how she should 'work' on their relationship - by declaring her vag open for business, whether she wants sex or not.

Lie back and think of England?

Could well be a medical issue than isn't diagnosed. In which, you may not know why you have a low sex drive and not be able to explain it.

Well, a disparity in libido levels is nobodies fault.

Yup. (though the mini-pill seemed to be better for that).

"You don't just suddenly go from a normal sex life to once a month just like that (unless you just had a kid or something)."

I dunno if this is all that specific to club owners, as almost that precise narrative happened a shit ton of times to me in online games or on instant messengering (and I'm just talking about casually talking to people, not dating or anything where you'd understand wanting to know what someone looks like).

Why not? I went out to play - run around playing and climbing trees, building dens - all day unsupervised. I was fine.

I don't think Clementine really counts as a MPDG :)

I found JGL's comments on his character pretty interesting.

""What bothers me about it is I think that women get described that way, but it's really reflective of the man who is looking at them, and the way that they think about that girl, she said."

Eh, not sure I agree here.

Of course you are. You're on the internet talking in a comment thread. It's your personal opinion of one particular form of help that I'm questioning. That it's one particular form of help that happens to involve a dog, doesn't negate it from being a form of help nor does it disqualify it in any way from the…

0.o;

"The man rhymed "roses" with "toesies." Clearly Paula has some thinking to do."

Hard to tell what he means by "I think I could kill" though - as in literally "I am able to hunt this" or emotionally "I wouldn't mind killing that". I think he's trying to be less of a hypocrite (i.e think about what the animal is and if he could bring himself to do that) rather than just not thinking about where…