Well said. Abuse is complicated. That’s how it thrives.

I mean. That’s part of the problem. Just because the victim/survivor identifies him as the monster (which she says is a thing they’ve both called it for years) doesn’t mean that it isn’t a problem. The confusing part of abuse is the ways in which victims in a way are a part of the cycle. This is a good example. 

Why aren’t you coming here with anger about the erasure of black femme narrative? Why aren’t you mad about the trauma white women inflict and the huge history of that trauma? Why do you need to point out that a generalization was made?just because it makes you uncomfortable as a white woman? Read what I just commented…

This article is great. If you’re a white person and feel defensive it’s called cognitive dissonance. This is a call out on Sofia Coppola as a filmmaker and the harm of white feminism. If you feel defensive it’s your body saying it feels uncomfortable being called out. You know what you should do? Sit with it and…