This hits home. When I was 14, I had a serious crush on my best friend's older brother. He was 28. One night, we all hung out and did cocaine (this was the late '80s after all). My friend turned in and left me and her brother watching TV. One thing led to another and I ended up losing my virginity to him. Nothing ever…

This is related to a fear I have about the future, namely that I'll be working more hours and bringing home twice the salary of my husband and doing absofuckinglutely everything at home. My mother had trouble at the start of her marriage dealing with the resentment that can come with being a "working mom" (ugh, that…