Soooooo how does this affect ADHDers who can't sit still?

Meanwhile, I am constantly getting hit on by guys too young for me, and ignored by older guys. Weird

Why do you need kids anyway? I don't get it.

You gave up your chance to procreate by slutting it up when you were young; you are too old now. Sorry!

Science isn't very popular in this country, or in the minds of egotistical men, alas.....

Exactly- and this is why the evopsych explanation is GARBAGE. You see it all the time. Men freak when a woman can stand up to them, equal them, put them down- they can NOT handle it even after tirading against the woman. Which they attempt to force everyone to accept.

Well, clearly "fertility being only a woman's…

Exactly- these guys in my experience are roiling with baggage and issues.

You're missing the point. We don't want the guys to be attracted to people they aren't; we want them to realize we have the same rights as them to be just as unattracted to them !!!

No kidding- especially since the "old" woman now has 0 chances for anything else

It makes you wonder if these are the same guys that are whining all the time about women *not giving Nice Guys a chance - frowny face* .

So in other words, older men should just do a lot of cardio. What does that have to do with fucking only absurdly younger women?

That's what I've seen too, and these "Peter Pan" types are not really the norm- they are the jokes, the dudes who still all each other "dude" ("bro" is for Millennials), chronic video game-playing ADHD dunces who have never had to cultivate relationship or social skills because they were too busy being rambunctious…

I think those type of guys are stunted there, exactly at the mid20s range. 30 and over? They can't do it.

Well they are sorely disappointed when their cavalier attitudes don't work so well for them in relationships and they are forced to confront the bitter reality of their own assholedom in the mirror of a partner's face. It's amusing to watch and I've seen it over and over again. Reject, reject, reject such douchebags!

Lol almost as bad as "men like all types of women" and 10 seconds later "she's not that hot".

Lol we need to start a list!!!!

"Sperm quality isn't seen as a big factor like the overall decline in ability to conceive and carry a child to term with women. "

What about "isn't seen" not being the same as "truth" don't you get?

No but the same genetically-based desire for mate fitness is there.

Because it is the same for men, genius. male fertility drops precipitously after 30.

Also because guys that old are NOT looking to just begin having children- they gave up that option when they were slutting it up for too long in their protracted adolescence.

I sometimes think it can't be taught- critical thinking and inner fortitude is inborn.