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I remember that discussion thread. The psychic commenter was certain there was a presence... and then the thread kind of descended into an argument of psychosis vs. psychics...

I’m in Portland! Come visit anytime. I’ve from the East Coast, and West Coast is the best coast. I love it here and won’t ever leave.

I’m all in favor of recreational drug use, but only by people who agree to it. Dosing someone is wrong. And a waste of drugs.

There’s probably a dead person floating in the hotel’s water supply. And maybe that person was on meth.

Wait, you think when shit hits the fan members of racial minorities are going to murder the Palins?

I used to work in the dorms in undergrad, and part of the work was making sure that students weren’t so drunk that they could safely go to bed. I had to call an EMT on students at least twice, and at least once we had a student who passed muster only to lose control of their bowels upstairs. Facilities was “thrilled.”

Maybe for a hysterical encore she can take a dump on a pizzeria floor! Ha ha ha! Drinking until you can’t control your bodily functions is so cool! Bet the yogurt shop staff thought it was a real hoot too.

Yeah, accuse me of being an unamused old, but this is gross behaviour...

Homeless junkie pees on yogurt shop floor = sad and pathetic, needs help.

IMO in your situation it’s entirely reasonable to coach him into being good in bed. From what you said you really like the guy and feel comfortable around him that is huge. Furthermore it seems that him being bad at sex is about lack of experience and practice and not about being generally terrible in bed.

See, I feel like I have to be honest, because he deserves it, and because in general, I’m forthright in all areas of my life. But I can’t say, I’m sorry, we’re not going to work out because the sex is bad. I’m thinking I might go with something along the lines of, “I feel like we’re incompatible physically” or…

I coached him through the first one, and he was surprised when I didn’t immediately come after 30 seconds of me on top - no other foreplay, no other positions, that was it. Then I gently coached him through some afterplay, and that wasn’t good either. I talk about about things, as a rule. But you can’t give a calculus…

Oh, dear. I agree that you have to end it because it’s just not going to work. The trick is finding the right way to say things.

You have salty biscuits, you make Rebecca references, you have beautiful shoes.

I found the quotes about her initiating sex and THANKING him for it to be crushing. I am not sure my ego would be able to take that

It’s a strange thing, being on the Not Conventionally Attractive spectrum. Especially living in Southern California, where conventionally attractive is the preferred default. While I find that it is very easy for me to keep a guy’s attention in a conversation, either a CA woman, or some other male “friend” will kill…

You’d think he could get his paid staffers to look up a quote on a prosperity gospel site...

“ Bible? My favorite Bible passage?
Well, ‘ya know, it’s everything. It’s just all so amazing, where would you even start? I love all of it. Just all of it, from beginning to end”
** I’m paraphrasing, of course. **

Not a real nurse.*