Kinda late to the party here, but.

I helped the investigators at my agency with surveillance on a case and they got enough evidence to arrest the criminals! And they acknowledged that I did an awesome job at surveilling. Which as someone in intelligence support...nobody acknowledges us usually. It’s cool to be recognized for being helpful. (My job is…

I think it’s fine as long as you ask in advance.

I met my fiancé on okcupid too! It’s a fun site.