It doesn't matter if she's a tennis player or a car salesperson or a molecular chemist, if she's being interviewed about her work, questions about her romantic life are totally inappropriate. Just because she happens to have a job that involves spectators, it doesn't mean they get to spectate everything about her.

Recreational users ruin it because:

60 mg? Wow, I take 30 and the doctor told me that's as high as it can get. 60, wow, I think ok at that point it might have some affect on me other than just bringing me to normal.

Haha well your husband is classy then! Most of my friends haven't done the matchy match in last 5-10 years or so, but man, my Catholic family weddings...same for proms in the 80s and into the 90s.

I'm pretty much convinced the devil lives at David's Bridal. Those stores are messy, dirty, horrible service, ugly crap...I get that it's cheap, but come on, at least do something to pretend it's not THAT cheap.

Yup, my take as well. The whole thing is a leftover from the days of dye-able shoes. My god, at least we done that whole thing. The most uncomfortable shoes in the world, and even the stains on your feet matched the wedding colors! They hung around for a long time— I was in a wedding as a "junior bridesmaid" in 1985…

I wonder why it is so impossible to find a wedding dress that's not white/ivory. Or not strapless. Or not floor length. Or larger than size 10. From what I've heard from my friends, wedding dress shopping sounds like the worst experience possible in a human's life.

To me it seems like an old thing to be honest. You know, like in The Wedding Singer. When I was a kid in the 80s I went to a bunch of family weddings, and the dresses matched the shoes matched the cumberbuns matched the flowers matched the streamers on the limo matched the napkins...out of control. My mom can tell you…

Do people actually worry about this? Why not do as the post suggests and ask the florist for seasonal flowers, then just choose dresses and other...things (I don't even know what those things are, I'm that wedding illiterate ) that won't look ridiculous with them? The only "colors" people tend to notice is what the…

I'm sorry, but I will most likely be getting "engaged" in the near future (not during "engagement season") and I don't plan on making a whole big thing about it. What is the big deal? To me, telling someone you got "engaged" is just like warning them they'll have to buy yet another plane ticket and cocktail dress in…

Right I mean, I got through it undiagnosed and without drugs and not even with parents who recognized a problem in the first place. But looking back, it's like wow, if my life would have just been better if I didn't feel like a failure all the time. I can't even imagine how my life would have improved if I could have…

Ugh homeopathic remedies, don't get me started. I think exercise and eating well help everything in life, but sometimes they just aren't enough. I have a relative who thinks his 10 year old has ADHD, but he said he will never allow him to put chemicals in his body and it can be remedied with lean meat and green…

I really thrived in the college/grad school environment, but elementary and high school were nightmares for me. I got good grades, but still a nightmare. I was almost physically incapable of doing homework. I always got in trouble for getting up, talking too much, making "careless" errors, zoning out. I always…

The therapist that diagnosed me said people who do well in school (i.e. people who want to go to/make it to grad school) are seriously underdiagnosed. The thing is, college and grad school actually worked really well for me. I got good grades in elementary/high school, but I was not a good a student, I was basically…

I don't know why anyone who didn't need Adderall would want to take it. I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was 30, and I waited several months trying other options before my doctor convinced me that Adderall would really help and not hurt. I learned that if you have ADHD and you take it as prescribed, there is nothing…

It's actually very common for people with ADHD to a circadian clock that runs about two hours behind neurotypical people. My brain does not boot up until like 10 am at the earliest, but I'm blowing stuff out of the water at 4pm when everyone else is crashing. It just sucks to be forced to be like everyone else when…

Yes! The doctor actually mentioned to me that that's how you can tell clinical ADHD from something else. He said that if you take Adderall and you feel better but not totally different, you probably actually have ADHD neurology. I have no side effects on Adderall, except it still decreases my appetite after several…

I'm an Adderall user (with ADHD) and yeah, it doesn't make you more "productive." That's not what it's for. It's to make people with ADHD more able to streamline their thoughts when they have to. It makes it less uncomfortable to sit still and think; it makes it easier to function normally. But it can't tell you what…

People sell it, like anything else. I live near a university, so during the Adderall shortage of 2010-2011, I was really tempted to visit the dorms with a wad of cash when all the pharmacies came up empty. I didn't, because I knew I would only be exacerbating the problem, but there was no doubt in mind that I could…

Mayatl— I looked into getting diagnosed in grad school, and it was the same exact situation. I couldn't afford the $800, so I just spent another two years undiagnosed until I lived in a different state, had better insurance, etc. I finally just had to go to a series of appointments with a psychologist and take a short…