Don’t jump into the dating pool before you’re ready. My ex did (with me) and had a meltdown months into our relationship. He didn’t want to get back with his wife... but while breaking up, he told me that there was no hope for us ever because he felt like I was the girl he cheated on his wife with because we got…

This is them, this past Caturday.

...um you probably shouldn’t...I mean I would but I have no kids or other responsibilities.

Good for you!! Seriously, this complete stranger is very proud of you. Realizing what you want and going for it means you’re a complete badass

I move to London in a week for grad school!!!! Of course my uni is making the whole residence set up a giant pain in the ass and I will have to stay up till midnight to call them for a 3rd time and hopefully sort it all out, but whatever! I’ll be spending 3 days in Iceland beforehand, so feel free to chime in with any…

I hate my coworkers, no really... hate. A bit of background, I’m a direct care worker at a mental health facility, so I’ve dealt with some really interesting people over the past 11 years. I can handle almost anything, except for the two cunts I work with.

i don’t think so. My place was an estate sale. never happen before, but i do hear noises sometimes...probably neighbors

I too missed SNS, but I always miss SNS and end up posting replies on Sunday. I’m grey so I don’t know if this will get out there. My Mom has to have hip replacement surgery this Friday, and I’m scared. I know it’s a routine surgery as far as it goes, but she also has a-fib so I’m concerned. I’m driving down to be…

I wanted to thank everyone who rallied around while I floundered, keyless, into a new “persona”. I really did panic when I lost access to “randilyn” and I considered just giving up. Of course I would have been able to continue reading all the articles by my favorite authors, admiring Tara Jacoby’s brilliant…

Wrong India, Columbus.

I’ve gone cold turkey from a pack a day two times, and have been smoke free for twenty years. There was no patch, no Nicorette gum. I walked uphill to school both ways, in the snow, with no shoes.

I am drinking a lot of beer and playing a game of “FMK” with Cindymoo and my mom, of all people.

I had a preventative mastectomy last Tuesday. I had a few great days of recovery, but it seems like I’ve backslid into the pain zone again. Also still weirded out every time I look in a mirror, which I expect will last for a while. I’m getting reconstruction done, and with the saline that was injected into my tissue…

OK I was not expecting that from the headline. “Hey look at these cool costumes, oh yeah some people got stabbed and stuff but whatever.”

He got shot in the head and is on a respirator.

I’m like..........

I'm going to need a minute to process this information. I just have had such a high opinion of Chris Brown, who has long been a champion of women, and assumed his attitude would also extend to the LGBTQ community. So it's difficult to believe he would do something like this.

A huge group of women, no less. ???

Everyone has their kinks

I feel so naive for being surprised by this.

ETA: The fuckin weird hippie/yuppie-driven culture that has developed around birth has achieved apotheosis. Now, people, please stop trying to out-weird all of the other crazy ladies and just have your baby in semi-normal circumstances with modern medical advances as at…