Herself.com by Caitlin Stasey. Not a spank site, more of a celebration of women’s bodies and selves from all sizes and walks of life. Very NSFW. I love Caitlin as a person, and think it is a fantastic thing she’s doing.

Blowjobs are the new “nice to meet you!”
Fingerbanging is the new flirting!
Squirting is the new blowing a kiss!

If they* actually did a sexy magazine featuring “normal” bodies, in a variety of sizes, genders, races, ages, etc. I would be 100% there for it. Nudity can be great! And sexy nudity can be great too! I think a solid 80% of the issues I have with nudey mags would go away if they didn’t define “sexy” so narrowly.

Yeah, ladies, naked is the new normal! Sending nudes is the new handshake! Women who are proud enough of their bodies to show them off makes men respect them MORE!

Yes. The whole “we’re doing this to promote women’s health” doesn’t really hold water when you are denying women access to reproductive health care.

Every. Single. Case. of. Unwanted. Pregnancy. Involved. Sperm.

OR you can do everything right and *still* get pregnant. There’s a reason why the side of the box doesn’t say 100%

Or sometimes you’re in an abusive relationship and the man doesn’t give you a choice about sex.

I’m three months pregnant and just last night went on a hormone-fueled rant to my husband about how being pregnant is making me even more pro-choice and angrier at every single male who wants to legislate our bodies because they will NEVER EVER FEEL PAIN IN THEIR BOOBS LIKE I DO RIGHT NOW.

Ultimately, he said, his intent was to let men have a say. “I believe one of the breakdowns in our society is that we have excluded the man out of all of these types of decisions,”

Are there a lot of men out there who were desperate for a woman to carry the pregnancy that they terminated? Like, is this even a thing? Because I’m pretty sure most guys in this situation would be happy with the woman’s choice.

Man, I am also so sick and tired of these people acting like unplanned pregnancy only happens because the woman was a big ol’ irresponsible dumb dumb who just didn’t feel like using birth control. Unprotected sex happens for SO many reasons. Sometimes one or more parties are drunk. Sometimes you forget to take the…

All hat, no cattle.

HARD PASS.

I don’t even have words anymore. Just rage. Every day.

I am unable to form a thought about this because I am so enraged...

The Handmaid’s tale was not a fucking playbook. It was a cautionary tale. I can’t believe this is real life.

It’s pretty clear to me that this guy wouldn’t know much about being “invited in” to a woman’s body.

“Women have very little idea of how much men hate them.”- Germaine Greer, 1970. Plus ça change...

Evidently, Justin Humphrey is the host body to a damaged parasitic mind.