I'm not telling anyone where to rank it on a priority list, just pointing it out as a flip side to the leaning in, having it all zeitgeist. Also, I wasn't talking about SAHMs at all. I was specifying women who work outside the home but don't aspire to the corner office; women who have a career but aren't looking to…

I meant making it ok in feminist terms; so that it's easier for a woman admit she doesn't want to "lean in" or "have it all" without being seen as a regressive or anti-feminist. You don't have to be superwoman at work and supermom at home; it's ok to just be ok.

We also need to make it okay for women to be unambitious without apology. You can be a good employee and a good mom without exhausting yourself trying to be THE BEST!!!! at both simultaneously. It's not anti-feminist to realize that you're not aspiring to be the next Sheryl Sandberg. (And, of course, for women who are…

That assumes the availability of grandparents who have the proximity, time, energy, competency, and interest necessary to take on a significant role in caring for their grandchildren. I would guess that's a rarity, although it sounds lovely.

That is very, very important (and still too rare, I think) but no matter what you decide beforehand, all bets are off once you have the kid. It's impossible to predict how you'll feel, what your baby will be like, and a million other factors that can mess up your plans. So while I totally agree that it is crucial to…

Seriously, I don't know what that weird Superman hair is doing, but he was HAWT in The Tudors. Hello, boat sex with Princess Margaret!

I understand your criticism, and I agree that "yes means no" jokes are harmful. But I think in this case, it was very clear that Rebel's character was comfortable and in control of the situation, and the joke was on the guy that he didn't get it. Still, it's interesting to see a different read on it, especially based…

Yeah, I didn't see that as a consent joke at all. It looked to me like she was into it but didn't want her friends to know (because ew) and he just wasn't getting it. So, the joke was on him.

#DILF

I'm not sure what the styling idea here was, but Anna Kendrick's hair and dress combo is just...bad. (And based on her fake smile in the pic you posted, I think she knows it.)

He's so hot as Kira's dad! I think it's the beard that does it for me.

She is the best! And I love that they put all 3 in the same outfits, instead of forcing Rebel into some hideous muumuu while Anna Kendrick and Brittany Snow wear lingerie (a la the Cosmo SNL shoot from a while ago).

I imagine it would be hard to find a traditional job, but maybe he works over the internet or something? Honestly, I have a lot of questions about this whole situation.

Ok, that is one of the most disturbing things I've ever seen. Also, why is this "admirable"? Obviously people can do whatever the hell they want with their bodies and I fully support their right to do so, but I'm not going to actively applaud a dude for turning himself into a platypus. Sorry, I'll turn in my…

lol no

Honestly I love potatoes more than is reasonable, and I totally would've bought this calendar if it featured some sexy men posing with equally sexy tubers. Do better next year, Bavarian farmers.

Except many (most?) of the NYC subway cars also have differentiated seats, with at least a line indicating the space you are meant to confine yourself to.* In my experience, these guys know they are spreading their legs across several seats; they just don't care.

Ha! It definitely depends on what sector you work in - not all workplaces are super conservative, even in the political realm - but DC professionals are not known for their fashion prowess. (Luckily for me, as I am prone to dressing like a younger, non-blonde Ellen DeGeneres.)

Peter Gallagher's eyebrows could star in their own show and it would be better than this hot mess.