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But it doesn't change the fact that he's never going to have a woman's lived experience.

Bless your heart. Your logic would apply if he were referring to himself as a woman. But he's not, he's referring to himself as a feminist. Feminism is a movement, not an identity. You don't choose to be born a woman but you do choose to be a feminist. The "marginalised" group is women, not feminists. The terms aren't

Gawd, I knew I would find this in the comments. The fact that it's feminists who are criticizing him the most proves that, once again, feminists are feminism's worst enemies. We say we want allies but I guess by "allies", we mean "silent masochistic punching bags". It's kinda sad when you're just as disgusted by the

Last time I checked, being a feminist is about the doctrine advocating social, political, and all other rights of women equal to those of men. It says nothing about it being a girls club or anything like that

Are people never allowed to grow and evolve in their perspectives? When I was 17-20, I regularly espoused my beliefs that civil unions were fine, being trans was all made up nonsense, that abortion was wrong,and that affirmative action is bullshit.

I've watched all his specials (or at least all the ones he has on Netflix) and I feel like there's a definite maturation going on there. It feels like he's having the same realization a lot of guys have when they realize what life is actually like for women. I'd rather encourage that than find fault with it on the

Hi, I'm Withnail. I went to NYU and was "poor" and smoked tons of weed, and I'm an "Abbi".

Wonder if he'll put out a sequel where he takes pics of himself with a board that says "have my baby!" and "make a tiny little me!" for a year...

Remember before the Internet when people just fucking proposed with a goddamn ring in a champagne glass/piece of chocolate cake/etc.?

Can I mention how lucky I am to have a man who made me wait at a spot at Glacier National Park for 5 minutes for 4 other people to leave in order to ask me, quietly, to marry him. No videos, no cameras, no audience. I am lucky.

My husband, not overly sentimental, says to me on Sunday "Aww, did you see that latest proposal video? It's cute."

How to make a proposal all about you 101

No people think that Thought Catalog is awful and perhaps people should look into the truth.

I have such a hard time wrapping my mind around this, but then I remember that actresses are supposed to be able to fit into designer sample sizes. Tina Fey's bit about this in Bossy Pants (where she talks about doing a fashion rag photo shoot) is fucking hilarious.

And if you're gonna have a man there you can't do a lot better than Paul Downs...

I, on the other hand, I'm all for monogamy, I don't believe open relationships can work because of jealousy, insecurities which are fair common human emotions. But this article has really made me reconsider if they can work, as long as both people know what's going on, be honest with each other and realistic. This

This was a great interview, thank you so much for this.
I am poly/into open relationships (they're not the same thing) and some of my friends are too. I absolutely don't believe in monogamy. I believe it works in some specific cases, but I believe most relationships would be better if they were non-monogamous to some