And. Don’t go over your budget. Just not worth it. You’ll enjoy the day and have lovely pictures for memories without the video.

Wedding planning is the worst. It sucks you in like drugs and for a year or so you become completely crazy. Then your wedding comes and it’s awesome. Then you realize you don’t have to plan anymore and it’s amazing. Just ride out the craziness girl. And maybe go to some yoga classes.

Wow. This is pretty amazing. Don’t you feel like progress for trans rights has just skyrocketed lately? Yes there are the usual assholes and bigots, and yes, there’s still been a lot of violence against trans people and suicides, but, it’s now a part of national news stories and a lot of people are just being cool…

I agree with you, I always saw Meredith and Cristina’s relationship as more central and Meredith and Derek’s as peripheral. The show really started out focusing on friendships as they were all interns together, and then got more romance-y as time went on I think.

Yeah he’s arrogant and annoying. I was more sad when Cristina left.

SO jealous!

Goddamnit I love Toni Morrisson. I heard her in an interview on NPR the other day and she’s just a gem. Also, how do I stay that sharp when I’m 84?

I’m so happy you were rebellious and aggressive! Seriously. I had similar experiences to you but I turned painfully shy instead. I always wished I could be badass. But seriously good for you for standing up for yourself and being an awesome representative for teen girls!

I’m with you here.

I think it’s more about how we raise boys. Fathers should teach them to respect women and girls as human beings and not sexual objects. However, if my father would have called out gross old men when they were being inappropriate I would have loved it. Not in the creepy, gun-toting, purity-ball kind of way though, but…

I wich I could feel this way. But this thread is bringing up memories and now I hate men again. Fuck them all.

Gross. This was my experience as well. Older men always ogled me. I was skinny child-like for a long time, and did not develop as quickly as other girls. I still look very young for my age and get a lot of attention for it. I had a fucked up adolescence. I hate men.

What I remember is around age 13 or 14, I started to realize that older men (30s and up) were attracted to me. Many inappropriate things were said and done by these men. Actually I can even remember an older woman coming on to me and other adults shushing her and pushing her away. I was a kid and didn’t know how to…

Oo gorgeous x 2! Thanks for introducing me. And can I just say that i love your music posts? It’s so nice to have a music writer round these parts.

How have I never seen this before?! It is so genius! Thank you St. Amy.

yip yip yip yip fam-AH-lee!

Oh my god that’s fucking adorable! Their other appearances were wicked creepy though.

Well good on you for having brains! That’s super gross.

man! how many social media platforms are we expected to keep up with these days? I am old.

EAT THE LENS OF A COW EYE?!?! What kind of crazy shit is that?!