Because it gives you power. To say, "you will not ruin me with the hate you cause. I make this choice to forgive you." affirms a persons agency. Monsters like this Lane person want you to hate them. It kills them that you would have compassion.

but it sounds like rape advice given to girls “don’t dress like a slut” “don’t drink in public” etc

My mom used to tie my sleeping bag’s strings into knots and bows because she told me I might become asphyxiated in my sleep. I also couldn’t sleep with hair elastics in my hair or a headband for the same reason. I also wasn’t allowed to sleep with my bedroom door shut until I was nearly in college for fear that there…

Are you so heartless that you don’t care about other peoples’ genitalia? I, for instance, hope your genitalia are having a lovely day.

Yeah, I’m a woman of color and I think framing this as a competition for who gets to be chosen by hot white guys is missing the point about as much as it’s possible to.

IDK what’s worse - what she’s doing to herself, or that FUGLY sink in the background.

Calm down there, Satan.

i find this stuff adorable tho....

I always say if I get a tattoo it will be of cat teats down my front. Then I’d be a bit hit in the nursing home — “Have you had a look at Mrs. Victory NAKED?! It’s a MUST!”

i feel like it’s also a way for people to be like “WHY DID I LEARN CALCULUS BUT NOBODY EXPLAINED INSURANCE FORMS TO ME” sort of thing. it’s nice to know that everyone else is also totally lost...

Well, I just cried.

Please remember that kink shaming is not okay

I’ll be very honest, and while you know the game and the players better than I do, I’ve read similar stories to this where you turn out to be the side piece, and there was never going to be an actual divorce.

This story only starts out like a horror story. It was horrible for me at the time. My boyfriend and I were celebrating our first Thanksgiving together. It was also just a couple years since my Mom died, a loss which had blasted a huge hole in our family. We scattered after that and had Thanksgivings either alone or…

You see, young Elvis was a tricky little brat. In Kindergarten, I was riding home with my dad, brother and brother’s classmate. My brother’s classmate was going to be doing a Thanksgiving play, and I decided that I wanted to be in one too! The catch was, it was Tuesday evening, and tomorrow was the day of said play I…

I like celery fine, but yeah, no on the boiled whole chicken. Grandma needs to go back to Grandma school.

At long last, pictures of a pretty young nude white woman on the internet.