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lilyfliesindarkness

Yes, first was the freshman 15, then stress eating, and now the covid 19 is the nail in the coffin of my hopes of ever fitting in my cutest clothes again šŸ˜¢

Just moved out of a complete strangerā€™s spare room (she wasnā€™t sketchy, just annoying, never cleared her stuff off the shelves or under the bed, and also seemed annoyed when I used her kitchen stuff even though she told me before I moved in that I could use hers as there wasnā€™t room for more than a few things of mine)Ā ā€¦

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Doesnā€™t work. You canā€™t be a Becky in a movie full of nothing but white people. A Becky weaponizes white womanhood against people of color. A Karen is just a recent term for any annoying white woman that white dudes have gotten self-conscious about the sexism of and have started pretending that people of color came upā€¦

Great catch! There was another film called The Temp, starring Lara Flynn Boyle, Timothy Hutton, and Faye Dunaway with a similar take. Lara is the "crazy" stalker in this one, and there's a scene where Timothy is outside her apartment window listening to her masturbate. You would think he would be seen as the creeperā€¦

I remember watching this and being HELLA surprised that a woman masturbating was shown onscreen! Of course, itā€™s an exploitation flick so itā€™s to show that Hedy (alone in her room with every expectation of privacy) is CRAZY ā€˜cause she gets herself off. Meanwhile her spying roomie is shown as shocked/turned on, andā€¦

Are you trying to say that all grammar nazis are narcissists, or that all narcissists are grammar nazis?

Yeah, basically a zero-value-added comment. Kind of a theme, based on his post history.

Dang,Ā that was your comment in this thread? Harsh.

Them: I wear this necklace with the formula of the universe on it to remind me that Iā€™m secretly more powerful than everyone else.

I prefer ā€œgay bullā€.

ā€œpeople who lack empathy have to do a lot of work to gain itā€

This was by far the best ā€˜dating a narcissistā€™ article Iā€™ve ever read. Thank you very much, Rebecca. I dated a narcissist and serial cheater/liar for 2 1/2 years and finally and FULLY left him at Thanksgiving. It was (and occasionally still is) emotional for me. But, something about reading your article just now felā€¦

Also, if you dare to disagree with them or criticize them, they fly into a rage and immediately go into character assassination mode.

I remember the very first season of ANTM, when an early stunt was to have the girls modeling swimwear... outdoors... in the middle of winter. Idea being that models need to do a good job selling clothes photographed out of season, and ā€œmodel through it!ā€ pretending not to be freezing freakinā€™ cold.

That is awful. What happens to people? How broken down does your humanity have to be to even be capable of arranging and or taking part in something so shameful and lowbrow.

Hey, uh, can you shoot me an email at ashley.reese@jezebel.com. This is wild!

OH. MY. GOD.

THIS šŸ‘ BITCH šŸ‘

Picture it, Los Angeles, 2006. I had just moved here literally the day before. I saw a listing in probably backstage or something about a model open call, so I go. Itā€™s at the Crowne Plaza in West LA, where parking was like $50 a day or something, so I park at this lot across the street, thinking,ā€¦

As someone whoā€™s entering my thirties and watching my unpaired friends get antsy, it makes sense as to why. Thereā€™s a dip in dateable people around that age, especially if youā€™re a 30-something woman looking for a man, because there is a solid chance you want children sooner rather than later (just statistics +ā€¦

A useful way of looking at dilemmas like this is realizing that the other person also deserves the same unconditional love and happiness you feel youā€™re lacking, and if youā€™re not the person to give it to them, itā€™s better in the long run for both of you to move on. ā€œLiving a lieā€ is absolutely a thing, and not a goodā€¦