I’m 44, and all I need to do is look at any online dating sites to see where we stand. Guys who are in their 40s (and that’s the range I prefer, more for reasons of having things in common, life experience, career & financial stability, you get the drift) almost all are looking for women 25-35, sometimes even the…

I’d also be more sympathetic if he’d lost social capital, and not only sexual capital. Cause while he might no longer turn heads, you bet people still pay attention to him and listen to what he has to say at work, in social situations, and even when he walks into a store.

To me BetterOffTed sounds like a grown man and not a cry baby. I’m pretty sure my husband would never while like this, and would be embarrassed by this letter. His older brother expressed a similar thing at that age, and I could see him lose respect for him, which was a terrible thing, to be honest.

Oh, I wasn’t talking about grooming- I’m talking about letting go of the need for attention. I’m a woman Tony’s age. I take care of my appearance, but I’m not going to mourn the fact that all heads no longer turn when I walk into a room, and I’m certainly not going to expect sympathy. That would be ridiculous. So, no,…

No, I am the guy that learned that there is a lot more to being a man than “getting the most pussy”. You have to be an adult before you can be a man. Grow up..... Or don’t, your call.

“In their reproductive prime”? Oh, Jesus H. Christ (if he existed), you’re one of those “it’s a biologic/evolutionary thing that I’m into teenagers” guys, aren’t you?

He needs to grow up. I’m a couple of years older than he is (just a couple). Happily married for over two decades. I like being called “Sir”. And I’m not looking for the attention of women half my age. You know why?

Insecure about his appearance? Notice he only laments about no longer being noticed by younger women. Not women in general, younger women. Coddling men in their late 40s who are lamenting no longer being attractive to young co-eds is never a good idea. “Happily married” or not, this sounds like a midlife crisis…

He is the ultimate manbaby. Crying that younger women no longer notice him. YOUNGER WOMEN. He is a married man worried about his sex appeal to random young women on the street. He sounds like a self absorbed douche.

I’d be more sympathetic if he hadn’t restricted his complaints to the attention of younger women. It seems like he’s not immune from ageism as well.

Dear Tony,

As all things are, I’m sure.

Hey! Focus! This is about Tony!

I wonder how many not-unattractive 47 year old women Tony “notices.”

Super paranoid about being followed, but couldn't lose the PI actually following and proceeded to cheat like mad anyway. Ratting on each other mid-cheat to throw the other lying slut under the bus first (women, amiright?). The amazing leet hacker skills of Zero Cool our tragic hero. Immediately turning around and…

"It's was like I was speaking to toddlers."

Is it really fantastic drama though? Instead of any real exposition, there's a lot of "things are getting hectic!" yadda yadda.

I'm with the "this is fake" crowd. There have been too many inconsistencies and unbelievable twists and turns.

Don't lump them all in together, they comprise a family of many individuals and I'm sure there is some love there, but can I get a slow clap for Anna/Chickadee who is calling her mom out on her bullshit, who is encouraging that her own name be put out there as the one who the molester attacked so that this isn't…

Boobs aside, how the hell can she afford $20K in surgery at 21 years old? o.O