1. Nopenope nope nope. Following someone out of a social event without an invitation is always, always creepy. Doesn't matter how attractive he is, or if she's interested. If anything, it's a huge turnoff that would end any interest she had in the first place.

Thanks for this.

The term Nice Guy TM suggests neither.

Ermm what? 99% of any women's friends are going to be platonic.

If she really wanted to, she'd proactively try to make another date with you.

I call them "good guys", while reserving "nice guys" for passive-aggressive assholes.

You probably wouldn't want to be with those women anyways.

I think you're talking about an entirely different situation, though, since you made your interest clear upfront. You didn't pretend to ask her to hang out as friends or bullshit around.

If the girl followed a guy home who continually was trying to get away from her, she'd face an even greater backlash as "that crazy chick" instead of having people like you defend her.

No one's holding up that end of patriarchy here.

Exactly. While Rosa Parks and people like her did great things by challenging social norms, and encouraged others to, the dire consequences meant that you can't really fault all the other people who didn't.

Or, they didn't feel like there was a reason to bring it up with you?

If they're following someone home, that's not because they're socially awkward, and is hella assertive. I don't even think it's sexism; they just plain don't care how the woman feels outside of liking them or not.

It's happened to me on many an occasion, and happened to pretty much every girl I know.

Probably because guys wouldn't go off and call a woman a bitch and get all aggressive when her brother is around??

No, that's not a valid comparison.

Aaaaand again, freedom of speech only applies to government censorship. It does NOT provide you with freedom from other people's opinions, unless you'd like to crack down on their freedom of speech?

I thought that was Korea.

No, it's pretty obvious that his agent told him it was an audiobook reading, and he went there expecting to read a book for recording, just not D&D.

Yeah, sounds like your husband is a dick.