And his point was wrong.

Try Khan Academy!

It's not an outrage so long as they both wanted it and you weren't, like, a total dick about it. To each their own, to each their own.

I said the industry was dominated by men. I did not make any assumptions or inferences about them. Stop trying to make it seem like I have an agenda.

It sounded like you were blaming her for not speaking out, and the rest of us were cluing you in to why she might have such a response.

No, despite means "in spite of", not "to spite".

We go with soft responses because it lowers the risk of retaliation, especially in cases where your livelihood or physical safety hinges on it. It's much easier to tell off a guy when you're with a group that you know will back you up, than when you're in a group where half the people will think you're the one being…

They didn't shame him on the website by name; he chose to come out with that apology.

I wouldn't say most men.

A surprising number of guys do, indeed, freak out at any negative response.

No, she cared enough to go through and take screenshots and put together the whole thing. That effort shows it definitely bothered her enough to share with her friends at least.

Because, in my experience, men do this kind of thing so often that if I cut them off each and every time, I'd be mad ALL the time.

If you have any professional contact with someone, it's quite dangerous to your career to complain or tell them to stop explicitly. The dynamics are different than with strangers.

It happens even if you don't tell them to stop harassing you.

I didn't get a prenup because it wasn't necessary, but on the other hand, I wouldn't marry someone who absolutely refused a prenup, either. Idk, the willingness to sign it is generally enough of a symbol that they're going into it in good faith.

The only way giving up things you love for your partner is reasonable is if they're an addiction that's interfering with your life and relationship (outside of them simply not liking them). Like if the guy in question was neglecting his responsibilities because of video games and didn't have the self control to wait…

I hate to say this, but could you be, ummm, enabling him?

Can you leave me that blanket in your will? Because Aerie probably doesn't need used Aerie stuff ;)

They can also post makeup on pre-shoot.

Two words: wedding pictures.