Thought it was pretty damn obvious after I clarified it twice.

It's honestly what it sounded like you were trying to do. And people already make so many excuses for cheaters, that it just didn't sit right with me.

Wait, Tila Tequila's Asian?

I'm saying you're trying too hard to make excuses.

I'm happy that they're happy. I'm not happy at people shoving their rings in my face and forcing me to make trite comments on how awesome it is.

Not planning, yes. But not WANT to?

Stimulus informs but does not create choices.

Ahh, makes sense.

Umm, I'm hoping that if they were flirting with each other, you would've called them out on it long before?

She's being defensive, something people do when they pretty much know they're wrong.

I fell in love with my best friend a few years ago. It was, of course, unrequited, and rather complicated by the fact that I fell for him while dating someone else (that he met through me, and respected a lot). I broke up with the bf, and confessed to my best friend, but if he doesn't like you that way, he doesn't…

You don't owe them an explanation. That you don't like it should be plenty reason enough for them to stop doing that.

Wow. That was some... interesting wording.

Shoulder and neck. That is all.

We only want to see it if it's wearing a little hooded monk costume. Or any funny costume.

Haha. I think mine is a bit different in that he has trouble verbalizing affection. As in he really, really can't without being uncomfortable. But yeah, cat is a perfect descriptor.

I whine until I get my way. But I am pregnant and so can get away with it :D

Ermm, I'm needy when I lay in bed and whine until my husband brings me ice cream.

Yes, because wanting my boyfriend to call once a fucking week is "needy".

If there's one thing college has taught me, it's that you CANNOT judge a relationship based only on talking to one side. I'd reserve judgement unless you talk to them both.