I've never seen that happen, ever.

Yes. And as a Chinese woman, I fucking hate that shit.

So men should only respect people who dress nicely? Modestly? What are the standards for that?

Nothing on the coach's disgusting comments and such?

It's not what you choose to write about but the way in which you choose to present it.

No more sweeping and over-generalizing than yours.

2. Is entirely state-dependent.

Why does it matter?

Why do you have to "go through" girls to find one you respect? You should know long before dating/sleeping with them whether or not you respect them.

I would just dismiss him.

Erm,

It's very insulting though, in the same way that "mansplaining" is. Yes, please tell me as an Asian how my standards of beauty depend on whiteness and how we don't want to be Asian because white people. Fuck that.

I still think it's important to be precise with language.

Have you not seen the comments around here?

Stupid people and their rationalization.

But we're not talking about the extremes of both ends.

Well, I remit. You're looking for more than a lay, since if sex were the only goal, attractiveness wouldn't matter, especially since less attractive women are generally easier to get.

Lol yeah... it's weird.

Nah there's meme builders that don't take much more time than just typing out the sentence.

But most men aren't like that.