I think you make an excellent point here. People who rape someone may not consider themselves to be rapists, but it doesn't mean they didn't rape someone.

They won’t be the last.. lookit’ this little gem. Ugh.

Ahahaha I had to look this up after this thread...she is indeed just a Buzzfeed journalist, and a quite liberal one, too!

Is Gaby (correct spelling) Dunn a porn star? I thought she was just a Buzzfeed...person.

I don’t think it’s that irrational. She *can* sing, but she doesn’t have a stellar, absolutely amazing voice. It’s pretty average. She can hit the notes but she doesn’t have a great range or a special character to her voice. Like, if she wasn’t already famous, there’s not a snowball’s chance in hell that she’d get a…

I can’t wait to hate that album.

How are these two even more insufferable while consciously uncoupled than they ever were while together?

The fact that 3 women are willing to risk losing their careers over this is very telling.

Since I already outed myself, I tweeted at her “please remember that friends, family, and loved ones we trust can still be rapists. Your words hurt many tonight.” To which she responded, “Thanks.” She deleted it shortly after and I didn’t get a screenshot of it. Reeks of “won’t someone think of how this affecting…

Her turnaround seems (to me, at least) quite insincere. I hope she addresses this in a format not limited to 140 characters :/

Really, really bad look for Gaby on Twitter tonight, after her own rise to e-fame was fueled mostly by being on the right side of these things. Now her friendship with Deen is taking her off-message. She’s already deleted several tweets that, based on the remaining conversation, questioned Stoya’s story and said she…

Aaaaaand Gaby Dunn, the buzzfeed writer Deen is dating (?)/friends with, is saying “it’s a 1 percent case.” Burn it down.

—because it’s remarkably easy for them to abuse women ... and get away with it scot free—

That was on off color joke at the time. I mean, a super telling off color joke. Like if someone made that joke you knew they weren’t safe to drink with/be on a dark street with/generally be alone with. I guess what I’m saying is “it’s not rape if you yell surprise” was the 2012 red alert danger danger will Robinson…

This kind of thinking perpetuates the myth that rape is an act formed from sexual desire, when it actually stems from power and control.

“No. Do you make crackers Brian?”

I will never understand family who purposely try to shame each other.

My dad used to joke when I had braces that all I needed in addition to those railroad tracks were glasses and then I would never find a husband.

Dad when I was 15: “You could stand to lose a few...” I was around 135 then...and I’m 5’7”.

Well, no. What Jezebel should have done was keep all the excellent writers it had, instead of Denton retooling it as “the primary voice for celebrity and pop culture coverage in the network.”