I’m dying at the bros here who are saying, ‘that’s just, like, your OPINION, man, my feefs are more important than your lived experience’.

No, you don’t understand. You see, this guy Dogface convinced some bartender chick to marry him, so you should listen to him when he tells you how you should feel if a customer makes you feel uncomfortable and starts doing things like passing you notes rather than just engaging in a normal, respectful interaction with…

It’s true that the bartender in such a scenario would not know the customer’s motivation or intent and would have to assume it (good or bad) - but that’s the point; someone in the bartender’s position can’t truly know what the customer’s motivation or intent is. 

No, friend, the worst thing women have done for humanity is keep silent about the internal game women play every day, “murderous psycho or harmless crackpot?” Now you're all confronting the possibility that your actions have made others uncomfortable and instead of taking responsibility, you've decided that we're…

Well, no -Saying ‘hey’ to a regular outside of the context of the bar is not the same thing as a customer writing a note to a bartender and handing it to them when they can simply just say “thanks” to them verbally. They are literally different acts.

The first thing she’s going to think when she sees the note is “oh god.” It doesn’t matter if it’s short and sweet. That’ll be a relief, yeah, but only after she’s been terrified. What is actually going on here is that you’re mistaking the kindness of strangers for an actual relationship. It’s not. You’re falling in…

“I’ve known numerous bartenders that truly appreciate their regulars and will even say hey to them outside of the bar.”

I even love the freaking opening theme music!  Can’t wait.

Agreed - maybe if it was near the holidays or her birthday one of the photographic prints with a small note or card it would be less so but even typing that still has me cringing slightly.

“It’s also possible that she’s trying to get other patrons to include him bc he’s focusing an uncomfortable amount of attention on her.”

Whatever road you take, its important that you take the road that gets you there.

So weird. I’m not going to assume that he’s looking to take his relationship to a personal level with this woman, but that’s what I would feel like as a service professional whose regular customer swapped out a verbal thank you for a secretive letter. It’s also possible that she’s trying to get other patrons to…

An animated show about a horse should not have been the catalyst for me re-examining my depression, co-dependent relationships and finally going to therapy, but it was.

I’m right there with you. I love Bojack merely for the therapy by proxy he seems to offer just by being a terrible, terrible person. This was the speech Todd (of all people!) gave that made me realize I was actually learning things about human behavior from a cartoon:

Can’t wait. This show is just the best show.

Yeah, I think Salty’s recommendation of “Thanks for making me feel so welcome here at K’s Bar.” is about perfect.

YAAAAYYYYY Red! That is fantastic news. And if you ever doubt that you are doing good in the world, just take a look at Dash’s before and after. Poor (now lucky) wee thing.

thank you for the kitties:)

Red in his new home:

Oh Maya, I am so sorry to hear about Ollie! Of course I gave Red lots of goodbye hugs and scritches from you.