Go fuck yourself. It was late, and whenever I read one of these stories it's always a woman. Why? People we always shame women by sending nude photos. It worked once with a Congressman but that's a different situation entirely. Yeah, I made a mistake but all of these "REVERSE SEXISM" assholes can go to hell.

Yeah, I see that now. I'm a dumbass. It doesn't change anything, though in the way that we shame people for nudity....women get the worst end of it but men deal with this shit too, obviously.

Yeah, I know, I'm a dumbass.

I'd like to live in a world where this isn't a big deal - where she isn't the person made to feel ashamed or disgraced. It's just a naked body, for chrissakes. It's not her self worth.

I wish I could star this 1,000,000 times. I want a Chanel vagina.

That's a pretty solid point. My feelings during those ages were different but probably not the norm judging by how many 18-24 year-old women I've known/currently know who dislike themselves or their bodies or both. That's why I think surgery should ideally happen later when everyone is a little more grounded and has…

Um, my friends and I played with Barbies until we were 9. Ugh, I'm so ashamed. It was really advanced Barbie play though...Barbie divorce court, Game of Thrones type power struggles. Still, I'll go over here....

A little surprised these surgeries that make most sense as you age are being done by young women. I don't care enough to figure out what 'designer vaginas' even means but I'd likely want a reduction (and lift) by 40 and possibly a nose job by 35 (Hey, as you age your nose gets bigger and mine's big enough). I'll…

Ugh. Go back to your bridge, troll. "you young women" "your peach" How old are you?

She's a lucky gal. That is a dick pic I would appreciate!

Oh this is a good idea.

But it's also like...women send pictures of their breasts or entire selves...Why, when men get so many kinds of pictures of women, often with pictures of mostly everything would they think a disembodied dick is the way to go? Because they think sexuality and everything appealing about them is captured in their dick…

Oh my god yes, I cosign this so hard as a lady who loves to make jokes and have them appreciated or at least for some to know it was a joke and not assume all things women say are said seriously because no one can process humor coming from women, especially the dry kind. It's assumed we don't have any sense of humor.

So SHE feels that way. No one denies she feels that way. You do not know how representative she is of ALL women and I do not know that either. NEITHER of us have that information. So what is your point? You just threw this out there. Didn't say what you thought catcallers should do with this information. Just kind of…

Oh I'm using this in the future....

Yep. This is so true. Or rather I've found they want "smart enough to know what you're saying" but not "smart enough to ever challenge what you're saying and call you out on your bullshit."

His name is James Wolk and you can find him on Mad Men and The Crazy Ones. Always happy to oblige another Wolk appreciator! :-)

I will! I've thought about covering activism in the intersex community and when I saw this in The Atlantic I wondered why it hadn't been covered more. The headline is awful but what are your criticisms/thought on the way this was written if you've read it already? I don't want to make the same mistakes if this writer…

If that's not a totally understandable response, I don't know what is! I'm sorry that happened.

As a reader and a writer, it's tough to write about sex well. So if you have a gift, USE IT. People love sex/the idea of sex. Sex can be great. So why does it have to be a subject you should feel ashamed to write about, you know? Keep on keepin on, I say.