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Yea, it’s not surprising to me that asshole men think the experiences of other asshole men are worth amplifying. This is why is it so critical to have representation from marginalized communities in these positions of influence.  

They are so valuable, so vital.

Good.

Kavanaugh must be sweating bullets. Even if he hasn’t talked to this guy in a while, he had to know what they would find when they tracked down good ol’ Mark. His views haven’t changed much since high school.

Here’s a little bit of info about Kavanaugh’s “alleged” co-attacker, Mark Judge, from the Washington Post. Apparently, he really loves Noel Coward and domestic violence:

Julia Louis-Dreyfus for president!!!

Man here. I wish you were wrong but you’re not. As men we are all guilty of promoting the fucking toxic male culture that’s let this shit happen. Maybe we haven’t all raped someone, but I bet most of us has laughed at a “locker room” story of a sexual encounter that wasn’t above board. Maybe there isn’t much hope for

I keep seeing dudes defend this shit on social media with variations on “even if it’s true, he was only seventeen - can any of us really say we led spotless lives as teenagers?” To which I reply: (a) yes, in fact, some of us kinda can, at least assuming by “spotless” one means “did not commit any crimes or ethical

That struck me, too. Please don’t speak for all of us men, White House lawyer. In this regard, I have nothing to worry about because I haven’t ever sexually assaulted anyone.  That doesn’t make me a special person.  That just means I meet one of the basic requirements for not being a garbage human.

“It’s not fair! We’re white, straight dudes who came of age when we had carte blanche. We had, just in case we needed them, defenses like:

“If somebody can be brought down by accusations like this, then you, me, every man certainly should be worried. We can all be accused of something.”

“We all want something beautiful

You’re absolutely correct, but this is also a very special kind of thing known as misogynoir and fucked up that night for both of those stellar Black women.

OMG, I had a dude tell me in front of all my library’s customers that “I make up answers” when i couldn’t get a lady who spoke Portuguese (no translation service) her bank statements to print and sent her to the ban k(who has translators). I stewed for fucking weeks because I didn’t want to be seen as the “too

It felt so good. I was so relieved to see him understand that this isn’t just me being overly emotional.  This is something I have to deal with all the time and it’s frustrating as hell.

I got REALLY mad at work a couple weeks ago because while trying to resolve a very frustrating problem I kind of copped a bit of an attitude in an email with a man who was being incredibly unhelpful. I wasn’t rude at all. I just broke it down so any regular dumbass could understand. He didn’t appreciate that and made

This is why I want to start a “life coaching” thing to help guys find relationships on a few conditions:

Oh he’s an uncle alright. Just not the lovable and wise kind.

I don’t like this guy but I agree that 90% of the men I’ve experienced act like single cell brained animals with only sex on their mind. Once I accepted that this is the truth about most men I was able to let it go and take them for what they are and stop putting all my eggs into their baskets.