The redemption of men must go on, at all costs. They are so valuable, so vital. In a couple of years, Ian Buruma would be given a platform by another powerful dude to claim he was taken down by an overly sensitive hit mob too. On and on it goes, the wheels of patriarchy in perpetual motion.

The maniac left her a suicide note about the hell he put her through talmabout some love shit and she felt guilty. Jeezus. Fuck that guy’s soul. If there’s a afterlife, may he never find peace in the beyond.

Issa Rae is serving bridal elegance, which is delightfully surprising for a jumpsuit. Still, my brain can’t help but think “How she gon’ pee tho?”

My God. It has everything. Rape Culture’s classic hits:

They may be more right than they realize. A good marjority of women have suffered degrees of violation at hands of men known and unknown, often multiple times. I have had the misfortune of three. So either there is a super prolific minority of men, or there is a pandemic. Republicans have done their favorite trick…

No. But it’s up to men to scream down these maniacs when they normalize these behaviors as essential to manhood. Also going by the number of women who have these stories, he may not be as far off as he should be. And that’s chilling. 

Does the White House counsel know he may have just implied that damn near every man on earth (himself and his boss included) has been abusive to women? 

“We left butter in mouth once, it’s still there!”

It’s even more baffling when you remember Julie Chen Moonves criticized Camille Cosby for the same moves. Is it self-preservation? Blind loyalty? Internalized misogyny? In this climate, it makes more sense for her to ditch him for her career. I’d like to think she’s been manipulated in some way. But she’s a woman with…

Would gladly bargain with the devil to look like that, even if it means being pregnant forever. Because, gaddamn.

Nicki Minaj dropping dem SAT words to distance herself from Cardi B is peak elitist shade.

When black women are punished more for breaking rules other people get away with it’s still discrimination. Jaywalking, pot are illegal but black people are jailed more for it. Sure they are examples of white people who have been jailed for jaywalking and black people who haven’t but it doesn’t change the fact of…

Your win must have been very gratifying, to have someone understand finally. Men like those commenting on Deadspin could never understand. They are allowed to shout curses and bang desks. We must yell into a vacuum, seal it off and hurl it into the void lest anyone witnesses it. Speak softly always. Otherwise we are…

Many professional women recognized themselves in Serena in that moment. As a professional woman, I have cried out at double standards like Serena did. The difference is I, like many women, run to the bathroom to lash out at the mirror. Serena showed her anger and frustration on a court where there was nowhere to hide.…

Predictable misogyny is predictable. Of course people are blaming yet another famous woman for the death a famous man. Society refuses to hold men responsible for their mental health and fails to equip men with the tools to cope. Women are charged with keeping their bodies and souls safe.

The “Resistance” can be very unfocused. Media houses treat this like a spectacle. The public can’t get on it’s high horse too much, especially if Omarosa debuted on top of the best sellers list just two weeks ago. We don’t need anymore inside dirt, we are well aware of the dysfunction. They could tell us he throws…

Not sure if serious, but do it! Most of the advice available to young men is about getting laid. Not much out there about how not to be an emotional, sexual, free labour loving leech. Meanwhile women are coached to care for and to be considerate of people from childhood.

I had that thought too but didn’t know how to put it, so thank you! She dressed like a teenager. I get that this is her signature style. But her team really let her down styling her for a funeral the same way they would for a casual performance on a talk show.

By many accounts he is an odious jerk. He treats his staff horribly too. His image as lovable, wise uncle is a complete fraud. And let’s not even think about his Trump fiasco.