Alright man, you aren't listening. A girl was STABBED by a boy whose advances she rejected. I've talked to friends who have had strangers scream at them when they refuse to respond to them talking to them in public. I've seen screenshots of boys on facebook going right from "Want to go out?" to "God, you're a bitch!…

Plus you know ... lions.

I was thinking the same thing. THAT LADY NEEDS MORE OF THIS BREAD EVERYONE KEEPS TALKING ABOUT!

Oh for the love of christ, can someone get these people to shut up?

Siiiigh. Okay, I'm going to take this with a grain of salt, but still filing this away in my brain in case she keeps saying stuff like this.

My personal answer: a little of both.

I can't watch the video right now but can I ask to those who have ... would it have worked on the Daily Show? I know Jessica Williams has done some great and (I hate using this word) edgy segments about race. Just last week was the well received "Beyonce makes black girls pregnant" bit that clearly screamed sarcasm…

This makes me really appreciate the actors and actresses who allow for fun photos during stuff like this. I know the SPN cast is especially keen on doing silly things ... or at least looking like they're excited to meet the fans that paid good money to meet them.

He plays a young Captain Hook. He has a song in it.

Yes, just push away ANOTHER group that would vote for you if you weren't a bunch of bigots.

Yeah, he just seems like an actually delightful person. Did you see the footage of him recording his VO for the Tinkerbell DVD? Holy crap, he just loves everything he gets to do!

Okay, just a word of warning: don't play the "not all men" card. You're missing the point. It's not that we assume all men are going to become aggressive if they're rejected. It's that we never know IF a man is going to be aggressive when they're rejected until we actually tell them no.

Personally between him and Hiddleston for "British guys the internet freaking adores" I at least can appreciate that Hiddleston seems like an incredibly nice and genuine human being who enjoys everything he gets to do as an actor. Cumberbatch ... eh.

How do you KNOW though? And how do girls know in the moment? I realize it's anecdotal evidence, but I've heard over and over again from girls I know and girls online where a guy who likes her goes from friendly to aggressive and angry as soon as they say no, they don't want to date them. Hell, the article above links…

Yes. Fuck people indeed. And this is classic parent stuff for me, too.

Plus you never see white male singers being put on a pedestal and told they need to be better examples for white boys. Because you know, white boys have EVERYONE they can look up to. Ugh, haaate.

And then there's the "jeeeez we were just making a joke. calm down." I'm so glad I found out what gaslighting was because dear lord, was that used against me throughout my teenage years.

So.... is he giving this much shit to Ke$ha? Because I've got nothing against Ke$sha in general, but if you want to talk about LIBERTINE lyrics, I'm pretty Ke$ha has Beyonce beat on the "girl wanting sexy sex times and debauchery" thing. Oh right, Ke$ha is white, so she doesn't have to be an "example" for people of…

I think the only reason I would go back is because I could possibly be prepared to tell people to fuck off if they tried to start the insidious "teasing" they did back in school. But 1. why would I put myself through dealing with them if I don't have to? and 2. what if I freeze up if the opportunity come by and then…

See, in college and the couple years after my old honors english class from HS would get together at Christmas to go out to eat and I realized after a couple years that it was the social roles/dynamics snapped right back to where they were when we were in school whenever we got together. It made me feel really…