Are you seeing a therapist?

Thank you for sharing! I’m in my first pregnancy and I’m very nervous about the first few months postpartum. I've dealt w anxiety and panic attacks in the past so I feel pre-disposed to it. Hearing that you've been through it and are doing better is encouraging!

Oh shit! I think you're right! She dressed as an ACTUAL MERMAID for Halloween. But Steve was a dick to her. I'm not imagining that part.

Yes. She could barely walk in it and Steve was a dick to her about it. Fucking Steve.

Yup, that’s exactly it. It took me so long to realize that I viewed every dude as basically “my ex with different hair” haha it wasn’t until I said something to a friend about how sex and relationships were too hard because it’s always fighting and drama and she responded “that only if it’s unhealthy” that it clicked…

Yup, I’ve been there, I had a really nasty ex (that I dated for two years!) that basically convinced me I was broken. That I should just give up on sex. And so I did. And I regret that cause fuck that guy, you know? And you’re right about the courage, being open and honest w your dude is going to take so much courage…

I had this issue today! I’m 12 weeks and even though I’ve been bloated since week 6 I thought I was managing well, that is until I told my department I was pregnant last week and my coworker helpfully informed me that she could “totally tell.” :/

Yeah it isn’t just if they’ve been trained to fight. The issue is if they haven’t had any training at ALL. Untrained dogs can be very dangerous. The difference is a pit can do a lot more damage than some other breeds. All my friends with pit bulls are serious about training and their dogs are sweet hearts, but I’m…

Oh Girl I relate to this so much. I read some of your replies about needing foreplay/not orgasming from p in v and I know that life. I’ve got endometriosis and I have had dudes make me feel shitty about sex hurting or not coming from sex. I had bad unsatisfying sex for years w guys that didn’t deserve me. Then I…

Drink A LOT of water. I have a lot of pot smoking friends that smoke more often than you did and they always pass tests. I think they sell drinks that flush it from your system but really I think the water is your best bet. Oh and there are home testing kits online you could test your own pee just to be sure.

Girl, 18 is too young to have to worry about being someone’s step-mom figure, if you’re not into that. I’m pregnant now, but at 18 babies and children were the furthest thing from my mind. Maybe someday you’ll want kids, maybe you won’t. Either way is cool but please don’t feel like you’re a bad person for not wanting…

That’s actually not true. I’m super uncomfortable with the idea of sharing a bathroom with men, but men are not trans women so it has nothing to do with being transphobic. I don’t trust strange men. If I walked into my work’s bathroom right now and a dude was in there that would set off automatic alarm bells for me…

Yes! Mine were dark too. I hope it helps!

I’m due in October. Oh man I’ve had: nausea, back pain (I have a tilted uterus), exhaustion, lightheadedness, sore boobs, constipation, and heighten sense of smell. Like really heightened.

Sorry if this is a dumb question but does it have to be that exact cane? My great uncle used to have a wooden cane and it was carved with lizards and insects on it, it was really cool. Or maybe you could get a cane that looks like the one from Jurrasic park? With the amber globe on top? I think if I had your aluminum…

Talk to your doctor. I had to switch to prenatals w/out iron because the iron was just exacerbating my constipation. Pregnancy is lovely! Haha congrats!

I’m recently pregnant too! This is my first pregnancy and I feel like I’m getting all the symptoms. It’s exciting but also scary. Congrats!

Being a bridesmaid is so fun but also so expensive and stressful! I was a student through my bridesmaid years so it was rough trying to pay for everything while I had barely any money. Its a big reason why I had a small courthouse wedding with just close family last year, I'd had my fill of wedding party shenanigans…

It's actually empathy, and not being a racist, but please feel free to borrow A LOT.

A least I don't have racism in common with him.