My parents are immigrants from the Philippines and Puerto Rico and my sister and I have pretty white/American names. If my dad wanted to give me a name associated with my heritage it would have been Wilfreda :/

I have noticed the same thing about myself. I prefer to eat healthier when I can but I don’t restrict myself anymore like I used to. I would go through obsessive phases of eating and exercising then when I ate something “unhealthy” I would feel so guilty-which isn’t healthy! I realized what made me feel better is…

Agreed. Reading comments about not having the money to travels and do fun stuff isn’t really true. I have money now because I don’t have kids. I take short trips several times a year, and do things like going to shows and festivals last minute all because I can and have no little human to come home to or worry about.