Yeah, whatever she does, she should not threaten to tell the wife.

It’s a tricky situation because bringing the wife can escalate the problem for her and potentially make it a lot more dangerous. Her safety is the priority. If she tells the cops and gets a restraining order, the wife will likely find out anyway.

Nope, don’t tell the wife. Stay AWAY from that entire situation. Far, far away. The wife is not the LW’s problem.

I also used to be too nice to people. Then I realized I was kinda being an asshole, because if you keep doing shit you don’t wanna do you start to build up resentment against people. Which isn’t fair, because they can’t know your feelings if you’re never honest! I still let things go that I shouldn’t and they end up…

Yeah, the fact that he drove to her local post offices to mail the packages is what makes this even more concerning. Sounds like he’s stalking her and going through quite a bit of trouble to do it.

Oh, she did not have his shit. From https://deadspin.com/larry-nassar-in-letter-to-judge-listening-to-victims-s-1822203963

I clerked for Judge Aquilina in law school. I can’t imagine her response to Nassar’s request for a pity party for having to listen to all his victims. I’m sure she kept her cool and remained professional, but behind closed doors I bet she let loose. I have no doubt she’ll throw the book at this asshole.

Which is so weird, because we’re not that long removed from Harry dressing up a Nazi or the recordings of him in the army using racial slurs. I’m someone who remembers this, and somehow even I still like him better than William, whose only real fault has been ceasing to be a teen heartthrob

 someone who I broadly disagreed with on another article made one very fine point: often the assholes who take the time to learn to groom and manipulate children do the same to adults. I suspect that was at play.

That’s exactly what he is.

The thing I find so confounding about the complicity of USAG/MSU/USOC is... why? Once the allegations started to surface, why keep him? Did this shitstain appear to offer anything special? Did he seem to possess unique skills above and beyond the average sports medicine practitioner? Or was it really just the purely…

This guy’s going to die via suicide within a week in the clink, if he even makes it to sentencing.

If nobody else but Larry Nassar does hard time for this then it will be a travesty. There are a lot of people at USA Gymnastics and Michigan State who should be standing right next to Nassar.

“I’m an adult, and I’m listening, and I’m sorry it took this long.”

I just want to thank Deadspin and Jezebel for giving this the frontline attention it needs and deserves. Other outlets are giving it so little attention relative to its importance it is very disheartening.  I listen to the radio in the morning on the way to work and you would have little idea this was happening if…

Thank you. I know this is totally off topic, but I got into a huge argument with my husband once (like, a legit argument) because I told him I’d rather sleep with Steve Buscemi* than Marky Mark. He didn’t believe me.

So when I first read the name “Kevin Bleyer” I thought “oh good, some white dude is accusing women of bullying. I bet he NEVER is on the MRA subreddit.”

Poor doggo, but for a minute I thought you were talking about Chunk from Goonies.

Why oh why can’t dogs last a human ‘s lifetime :(...my sweet puppy dog is not even four and I fret over someday being without her

Chunk Handler was one of the best celebrity dogs... He was a good boy ;(