kolgrim
Kolgrim
kolgrim

A lot of the ladies who have responded to you have made some joke or other about how a guy says this because he needs you to be attractive all the time or he can't handle you expressing yourself and thinks he has the right to shut you down. That's not why we say it. Men tell the women in our lives to calm down for the

I happen to remember interviews with Bale fo the Machinist and Adrien Brody for the Pianist where they dicussed how they did it (an apple a day and a little bread a day, respectively). I can also tell you about the large amounts of ice cream Vin Diesel ate for "Find Me Guilty".

"I'm sorry a sentence with my name in it made you feel bad." That's what we've come to, isn't it? That's how much we're held responsible for other people's feelings. Shayna, these words of yours hurt MY feelings, and I hereby Twitter-demand that you publicly flog yourself for my amusement—er, emotional healing.

What she's saying is that filming sex on camera is fundamentally anti-feminist, like hydrogen is fundamental to rain. You can disagree with her conclusion, but her use of language is sound.

*fewer

No kidding, right?

I can understand the notion that it's misogynistic, at least in the same way the classic "Stand By Your Man" says, "After all, he's only a man." I, for one, can take the occasional "Nuh-uh, MY gender's cooler than yours," but I understand.

It's a function of the "no one is REALLY wrong anymore, we have to accept everyone's opinions" movement. First one to claim offense wins, and the thickest skin is now the whipping boy in the stead of the thinnest. We've just completely lost the ability to say "That person is wrong." The man who thinks you shouldn't

That plant-changing-into-a-human has amazing story potential. It should be some sort of carnivorous plant that kills one of your crew members and takes its form and now you have to deal with some completely alien character who looks exactly like a comrade it accidentally murdered.

Reading Jezebel is like masochism. Other sites have opinion pieces in the form of "Here's the way I think about this issue." Jezebel's model is, "Here's how big of an asshole you are if you disagree with me about this."

What exactly do servers do? When I was younger, I used to say, "I'd really prefer to tip the one who actually cooked my food rather than the one who merely brought it to me," but I'm willing to take a lesson. They take my order. They bring the food. They come by every once in a while to see if I want something else or

It's yonic. I know someone beat me to it, but I wanted to second it so you knew it was right, and not "vagtacular."

My hangup is the stuff about "if she's doing something else, she's too busy to be interrupted." On one hand, that makes perfect sense, but when are people in the 21st century not "doing something else" every moment they're in public? I pretty much am. I don't just sit down on a park bench and stare at the grass in

Please hit on me if ever you see me. And tell your friends to do the same. I'm part of the legion of guys that think it's hot when a woman asks for what she wants. Means the relationship will probably go more smoothly.

No worries, I wasn't offended, just couldn't follow your logic. It's funny—as I read your comment, I thought, "Well why would you need to clean up AFTER sex... oooooooooh." So you kinda explained your case. Thanks for that.

Nothing to get back at them for. They can say what they want. But so can I. Even if it's me disagreeing with one of them by agreeing with another.

As a person with a pecker, I prefer it clean and fragrant, and I know when it's not. Why should guys be oblivious to this?

I agree. The ads say "clean"— what's wrong with being or wanting to be clean? And yet this article's headline hyperbolizes the crap out of it in order to have something to be offended by today. I can kinda see a problem with "You know why you don't get sex? Funky vagina!" but I think the male versions mitigate it into

I agree. I'm all for being able to call out stupid stuff even before we've cured world hunger, but it just seems like the standard "make a new word so they'll remember our brand better" pitch.