My advice: find a church that talks about suffering. Any suffering will probably do. Any church that confronts the reality of suffering (maybe even if you're lucky, views it as part and parcel of a Christin life) will probably not be the "ain't no homo gonna make it to Heaven" type. My hope, at least.

Twenty-six, virgin, abstinent, religious reasons, waiting for a wife that may never come. “Sexual gratification is not a sacred right, and celibacy is not a fate worse than death.” -Richard Hays.

Why are there people on here saying the debate is not about whether abortion is the termination of life? There are millions who think it is. That ipso facto means you have to deal with it. If half the country thought abortions were responsible for global warming, you couldn't just say, "That's not the issue and I'm…

Exactly, you can lose your job over not reporting something like this. Think about it: one adult in a room full of minors. My mentor teacher told me: "All it really takes is one accusation and you're fxxked." From where I sit, there is no job more concerned with CYA than teaching.

I'm grateful that this idea and lifestyle is being presented. And it really doesn't look like there's any proselytizing going on, either. From my perspective, any woman who sticks up for the woman who wants five different lovers a week or the one who wants to be a single mom CEO should at least begrudgingly accept…

He wasn't somewhat reasonable. He was completely reasonable. Give credit where it's due.

This just in: The leader of a billion-strong group of people who think the Earth was created by a specific personality that has designs for human lives said something that offended someone who doesn't think those things, or believes in a different personality. In addition, water is wet and two plus two makes four.

Don't mistake me. Scenario 2 is rape. I know that. The only question is: if intoxication is enough to nullify consent in other situations (for example: man has sex with drunk woman is rape because she legally can't give consent), does the man's intoxication affect his status as a rapist in scenario 2, and why or why…

Oh, I'm certainly affected by what other people say, I just don't see myself as some receptacle that will take whatever someone wants to dish out at me. A woman on this site said I hate women earlier. I don't, and she cusses out a lot of people on this site, so I'm not going to stop and ask myself, "Wait, DO I hate…

I agree with that.

I disagree. No one could hope to MAKE me feel bad about being a virgin. If someone tried, I would immediately dismiss their opinion and lower their ranking in the heirarchy of who I take my advice and other social information from.

This is atrocious. Not your words themselves, but that you can write them here and EVERYONE who reads them isn't like, "Yeah, okay, who cares?" "I confess that I'm a virgin" should be as socially significant a statement as, "I confess that own a MacBook." Not everyone does, but there's nothing weird or pathetic about…

I can't believe you need me to do this: I, Kolgrim, am a Men's Right's Activist. I wear that label insouciently. It is no insult to me. Anecdotally, because of the way you treat people on these websites, I have no interest in dialoguing with you. I'll do this: I promise to never reply to your comments if you extend…

Oh, hey, Ginmar. Long time, no cuss out. I'm surprised you didn't offer personal information about you couldn't possibly have with this comment. Also, thanks for your comment's grammar technically saying that you're the one who needs to STFU, that was cute.

So being drunk means you're legally incapable of giving consent. Does anyone know, legally speaking, what that means when both parties are drunk? I'll offer two scenarios: (1) Drunk man and drunk woman both enthusiastically engage in sex, and (2) Drunk man has sex with drunk woman while she's saying "no" and weakly…

Marvelous. I have a clasmate who keeps telling me to switch to HoN. I told him, "I think HoN is the Mortal Kombat to LoL's Street Fighter." He didn't get how big an insult I meant it as.

I love that you actually hear the "clink" of Loki's scepter hitting Tony's reactor chest while the narrator can't figure out why it didn't work.

I'm sorry you had a husband that helped you come to the conclusion that dads don't do much at all in terms of raising the child. I've met plenty like that, but I've also met wonderful fathers who love their children and whose wives would call them indespensible. I know one guy who kept his regular job as a pastor and…

Question about LastPass: