Yeah, he sort of just dropped it on me as well. There wasn't even a minute for me to process what he said between "I'm seeing someone" and "she's 19". I do feel bad for calling it creepy, and it could've been handled more gracefully on both sides.

Yeah, that's a good point, as someone who was that 19 year old once upon a time, I came to the realization that I really didn't have much in common with someone that much older than me.

I'm sure she's very mature and intelligent for her age, otherwise he wouldn't be interested in her in the first place (other than the obvious reasons), but I don't know that it will ever not squick me out.

Okay Jezzies, serious question time.

I was actually the same way, sort of, in that I just didn't think I was pretty. Guys I went to school with never really expressed interest in me so it just reinforced that. Then I left for college and ended up becoming a fashion model (with a degree too). I didn't really watch much Disney or tv in general though as a…

Yeah...when you have to wear them for 12+ hour work days standing (I'm a fashion model) that mindset sort of goes away. Also, I don't find platforms aesthetically pleasing, and oftentimes wearing anything taller than that puts my ankles at an angle that re-agitates the nerve damage I sustained from dancing pointe for…

There is though. Another ex of mine has a schnoodle and this dog started licking my toes while the ex and I were having sex. Nope nope nope middle finger gif nope.

I have a lady friend who is super sensitive and takes things weirdly personally as well. The other day, after she was complaining again about not being able to develop and maintain friendships with people where she lives, I just gave her some tough love and told her that she needs to stop expecting people to be so…

I mean, my ex who happens to own a cat is sort of a weird dude, but I took responsible pet ownership (where was the litterbox?! also nothing was covered in cat hair!) as a huge plus. I did, however, require that the cat not be in the bedroom during sex because I'm also a weird person.

It really does help to take my mind off of whatever emotional state I'm stuck in! I'm pretty adamant about not using medication, so hopefully as long as I can stay committed to exercise (owning my own spinning bike helps a lot) and therapy I'll be much better.

I won't lie, my motivations for exercising are mainly because I switched representation last week and they need me to slim down through the hips a little (admittedly I didn't work out all summer and ate like crap), but it certainly helps that it quiets my brain.

Okay, if you can find them, I would say some sort of black stone earrings, not dangly, and a cocktail ring that also has a big black stone, and just a shiny black clutch of some sort (patent or satin is fine, I carry my Kohl's faux alligator patent clutch to all variety of fancy events). For earring references, I…

Grumble grumble, I miss my ex, grumble grumble.

An entire bar of Green & Black's 85% Dark isn't considered an individual serving? But seriously, it's really good and also organic AND fair trade.

Sadly the only guy I chatted with was....an engineer. I had two drinks and went home.

I've been listening to this song all evening, enjoy!

I'm glad I'm not the only one who was annoyed by that. My grandfather was from Ukraine, there is a difference between Russian and Ukrainian.

Anything with a single sole will never look like a stripper shoe!

Oh god. I'm so sorry that someone did that to you. I have an allergy to eggplant (not so much with other nightshades, as I'm okay with tomatoes though their acidity makes my GERD flare up sometimes) and have had several people feed me eggplant to see if I was actually allergic. My allergy isn't severe, but it causes…