Ergh I am so tired of seeing fascinators (if we can even give them that categorization) that clearly just look like someone took a headband and glued rhinestones and dollar store feathers to it. Also played out: miniature top hats on headbands. Sthap dat.

Token Black Friend is hilarious and gets my vote.

Those are PERFECT! Thank you bikini savior!

Ah I just looked at them! A little frightened because I'm thin but not bikini model hot yet. I know sexy designer thinks I look perfectly awesome naked, but I've been working out for the last month and want to feel smoking in one of those bikini styles!

Right now I'm all about taking my bistro set to the park and having fancy dinner there, bonus points if you cook it or go shopping together for it first. However I live only about two blocks from a gorgeous park so it might be difficult for you (you're in BC right?). I also like going to shoot pool then grabbing some…

I have no solutions to offer, because I personally use fitspo to motivate and remind myself that strong is beautiful and sexy and what I want to look like and that can blur the line into dangerous thinspo/pro ana attitudes. I would LOVE to have really cut abs, calf and glute definition is my focus right now but I'm…

Thank you for supporting my desire to have many swimsuits! I've never really done that before, because good quality swimsuits are expensive and I never had money until now (really I just got my first corporate job last month, it feels unreal to have a 6 figure salary). Mix and match is exactly what I WANT my style to…

1. Where have you been?! I've missed your comments!

Haha, I didn't say I was spending 5k specifically on clothes, 5k is my trip budget after airfare, since I went ahead and bought those tickets yesterday. My salary with my corporate job is like 180k per year (after many years of starving and slaving), so for me this trip is pretty much a spontaneous 10 days of excess…

Hah! I try to see at least one new country per year, and I've been pretty fortunate to country-hop and visit my favorite places a few times each. I pretty much only spend play money on travel, but since we don't have to worry about lodging for most of the trip I can budget in shopping! 5k should be more than enough…

Ahh I bet, I'm doing that right now to hopefully get some ideas! Since we'll be in Valencia for part of the trip, I'll only need beach stuff there, and I know what to wear for London and the football game, but Madrid? I have so many questions. Like, will we be staying with his family (probably yes)? Will we be going…

That's actually a good idea, I could always just purchase things there and leave space in my bag...we'll be in Madrid and Valencia and will be making a jaunt to London for a football game/to visit friends who live there. London I know how to pack for, but somehow in all my traveling I missed Spain, so I don't know…

Embarrassingly, I have actually been to 22 countries, but somehow missed Spain in all of that whirlwind. It's more specifically what to pack for that country and what the aesthetic is there as opposed to what to pack for international travel. I have a pair of Sebagos that come with me on all of my trips that are…

You and I are probably twins. Keeping quiet has really been my only solution, and I just live tweet whatever stupid shit is going on around me to relieve the annoyance I feel.

Looks like I already have some good staple pieces, I looked at some Spanish fashion bloggers and they seem to have a similar aesthetic style-wise to me, so I'm in luck. Basic wardrobe is much more me in real life, I wear enough kooky stuff at work (I'm currently working as a fashion model).

I'm not a huge packer anyway (shoulder pain makes carrying heavy bags intolerable), so rewearing things is definitely in the plan! We'll be taking a jaunt up to London for a football game as well, so I'm hoping to pack things that will transition between both.

If I can find one long enough, absolutely! I'm 5'11" and LOVE maxis, but can never seem to find any that actually hit the length they're designed for.

Wonderful news! Sexy designer has invited me to join him next month (as in, flying out on the 20th) for a 10 day trip to Spain and wherever else we end up! He's had this trip planned for months and months and I am just so shocked he invited me, because it is partially to see family that lives in Madrid. But yay!! Now…

Yeah, plus it continually associates EDs with extremely thin bodies, when EDs exist in people of all shapes and sizes. Maybe we could stop associating having an ED with being extremely thin, because it glamourizes the pro-ana community and what they want from their illnesses?

I'm just so tired of all the anti-ED material heaping the blame on models. Like, did we have to photoshop a model onto this? They (we) are real people too and we don't look like that! We have zero agency in the industry, but people are always quick to be like "oh these gross boney supermodels, why can't we get some…