I suggest 2 things first: Patti Stangers be your own matchmaker book and Matthew Hussey’s Get The Guy.

First off- your username is awesome and I love it!

Jesus Christ. I can’t really express an apology from all men, but take it if you will.

Morena Baccarin, a woman I know as Brody’s wife on Homeland who is also apparently on Gotham,

I recently had an incredibly enlightening conversation with my husband, who I consider as progressive and feminist as a white middle-class straight guy can be, where it became clear to me that he does not actually understand ANYTHING uterus/vagina-related. I had a baby 3 months ago, and he thought that the bleeding…

“I hadn’t really thought about how this would affect people.”

Welp.

There was this one part in an episode that was so brief that if you blinked you would have missed it. Anyway, it was a scene where Abby and Olivia were walking up to the house of a man who had committed a murder or something. They are greeted by the man and his wife. By mistake (instinct) the man reaches out to shake…

“Look at meee! I made money off the backs of women, because god knows if those women had agency to do the things I (and all men) wanted them to do they’d be in jail. But since I’m a man I got to do it all and was renowned as a ‘bad boy.’ Now I get to pat myself on the back for being revolutionary! I never got called a…

That’s bull. No one “accidentally” has an affair. An affair happens when an adult makes a conscious decision to cheat on his or her spouse. If one has made the conscious decision to not cheat on his or her spouse, no amount of opposite sex-attended lunch meetings is going to change that. I work in a profession where I…

And you’re making some kind of argument that “it happens all the time” is a legitimate reason to make a rule that discriminates against women in a professional setting. You don’t want to hang out with women in your personal life, fine. But it’s bizarre and unfair to women in your professional sphere to be treated as…

You know what prevents affairs? Not sleeping with someone who isn’t your partner. Pence setting that boundary makes it seem like he’s an animal who can’t be trusted to make decisions and just can’t help himself when any woman is around. Or that all women are so eager to climb on top of him that he couldn’t possibly be…

lol true. If a man calls himself a feminist out of the blue, I just run the other way.

Jesus, dude. What is going on out there?

Your comment - especially #3! - is the reason I consider my dude’s below average social skills to be a giant blessing and only a teensy bit of a curse. He’s one of the most physically attractive people I’ve ever dated, he works out so much I feel lazy, but has he ever picked up a woman in a bar or even been good at…

You know, I don’t understand how they do it. Referring to your 36 year old fella. A friend of mine had a serious relationship end suddenly about 3 years ago, and he was devastated. He discovered Tinder, and went absolutely bonkers. He’s a good looking guy, and is pretty successful, so it was raining…

that was the cafe owner and renata’s husband (if i’m remembering correctly what you’re referring to). i didn’t see it as bro-y, instead i think renata’s husband was trying to threaten him.

“Are we making fun of someone who is obviously mentally ill”... no we’re making fun of an asshole who is an entitled grifter.

I agree, with Michael Harriot. Further to his point is the question, how many black artists get to hang their social commentary pieces in the Whitney? In fact, if a black artist had done the exact same painting, would the Whitney even consider it? Further, the Whitney and the Art world has a long running history of…

Other way around. I think an artist can make any art they want, but that doesn’t mean it deserves a place in a museum. The artist was obtuse, but the curator fucked up.