As someone who had zero interest in staying friends with any exes, I like this.

What a piece of shit. That one takes the cake... or the italian sausage pasta. Jesus christ. You are well rid of that dumpster fire.

I had no idea he existed prior to Firefly, but same, it has killed my desire to rewatch. I wish I could separate the art from the artist and the acting from the actor but I just can’t. I look at him like

Finding out about Adam Baldwin of Firefly hurt me in my hurting place because Jayne brought me such delight, but I think he was always a right-wing douche, he didn’t turn into one with age or anything. Honestly I was happier not knowing.

Hey, that’s great cosplay. I love dressing up for movies. Represent!

The friendzone also seems predicated on the idea that you’ve been rejected romantically but you’re going to stick around and wear the person down or prove them wrong.

Yeah but so many of them will hotly deny it, I like that there’s research to point to now.

Awww, that is extremely kind of you to say. Part of being hard on myself comes from knowing very much that I am very much part of the problem (ie buying too much crap I don’t truly need— cutting back there would be a good place to start). And wanting to break from Amazon now is at least partly because however many…

I don’t remember this sex scene being in IT. I don’t remember the one in the Piers Anthony book that’s under discussion either. Granted I read both over 20 years ago, but how did my brain just pass over these things? Did I block them out? And WTF authors/editors? I like Stephen King and think Pet Sematary is the most…

Well, fuck. Cause I mean... I’m not going to Walden Pond without toilet paper.

lolol. That book. Even as an adolescent it was apparent that the writing was godawful sexist garbage, but not gonna lie, some of the sex scenes had me like

You are an artist of gif-fery. Well done.

I feel bad about shopping at Amazon because of the addictive convenience factor. I haven’t set foot in a Walmart in decades (and when I was younger I felt smug about that, shame on me I know) and I loved Amazon back when I knew nothing about it, but over the last handful of years, due in large part to these articles,…

Seconding that nothing is wrong with you (at least, nothing discernible from a three line comment). If anything, there’s probably stuff right with you? Some of us get kind of a late start. I had my share of dates and some pointless, badly matched ‘relationships’ that really weren’t, that lasted extremely short periods…

I would like to hear that story.

Ooooh I want to see the prom pic

That is wonderful. Eeeeeee. It is never too late to find love. No, I don’t care how sappy I sound. I’m so happy for you both.

My mom and dad, back when they used to watch a lot of CSI and real life murder shows, used to joke all the time about poisoning each other with thallium. They are super in love and so your jest just gave me an “awwww” moment.

Grats! 12 years total here too. Married for 9. Marrying my BFF is in the top three things I’ve ever done for my own happiness. We have a very lulzy time together.