kirac
kirac
kirac
May 21 2016
135

They shouldn't have. It was awful to watch/listen to. He's such a disgusting piece of garbage.

Mar 18 2016
364

A commenter on the last post requested that this is the photo we use for him from now on. A damn good idea.

Jan 15 2016
203

“Ohhhhh they’re compensated...” Jeff says with a wink. “But really, I was trying to figure out a way to make money like our fearless leader Trump. I didn’t want to be a loser. So I thought a good business idea should combine all the things you love. And I love freedom,” he say sweating. “And I love little girls. Read more

Jan 15 2016
301

excited about the xojane “It Happened to Me” post one of these girls will write in 15 years.

Jan 13 2016
394

Women will complain about anything these days. It’s like, if you don’t want to have your face ejaculated on, don’t injure your shoulder...seems pretty simple to me.

Jan 13 2016
91

YES. I call this “rape by attrition.” There are men who’ve learned they can force women—or anyone—to do whatever they want, simply by being relentlessly persistent. They’re like predators who wound their prey and follow it until it succumbs to exhaustion and blood loss. These fuckers have made passive-aggression work Read more

Jan 13 2016
81

... It’s generally a bad idea to blame victims for using whatever coping mechanisms they have available to them. Lots of people cope with the trauma of rape by trying to redefine it as consensual. Ending a friendship over that is a little bit like being mad at someone who’s drowning for splashing too much.

Jan 13 2016
82

As a wife it makes me sad and disgusted that wives go through this. There have been times when I’m not into it and my husband wants to so he finds ways to turn me on. He doesn’t beg. He doesn’t just go ahead and does it. He tries to turn me on and he’s often successful and when he’s not he understands. Am I naive to Read more

Jan 13 2016
181

Thank you! I don’t know why we talk about “fight or flight” but never freeze, which is far more common.

Jan 10 2016
181

I hate Sean penn’s stupid fucking face.

Dec 12 2015
36

“Letting” an adult do something is weird. It does sound like a power imbalance.

Dec 12 2015
60

Random question: how do you feel about people who say their significant other “let” them do something? I’ve noticed an uptick of people around me saying it lately and it makes me so deeply uncomfortable. I know not to say anything but squick! Like every time I’ve heard it it sounds like such an imbalance of power and Read more