The office I used to work in was so cold that I would spend all morning longing for my lunch break. By the time it came around I often couldn’t feel my toes, despite usually wearing socks, and my fingers ached. People above are talking about just putting on a sweater, but there’s no reason why you should have to wear…

My office is freezing ALL the time. I mean, I’m anemic and cold all the time really, but 67-68 degrees inside is just too damn cold. I’ve literally sat in my office talking to people shivering. I have to go outside on breaks just to warm up.

I’m sorry, was it unclear that it was 102 outside, and I was running a space heater indoors, in an air-conditioned office?

My office did a curious thing, I was comfortable all winter and then summer came, they turned the aircon on and now I’m wearing more layers than I was in December.

I’m in thickish work trousers and a button down shirt today, I was boiling on the bus and walk in. Now I’m in the office wearing a cashmere cardigan, I’ll be sweating the moment I step outside.

Maybe, but after walking a few blocks in 100% humidity on a day when it gets up to 95 with a heat index of 105, you get sweaty. I’ve found that the stockings don’t dry super fast (like, back on the knees, etc) and I become EVEN COLDER because I now have freezing cold sweat that won’t dry stuck to my legs.

It was 95 this week. I wore jeans, leather knee-high boots, a tank top, light merino wool sweater, and a scarf to the office. Half an hour in, when it was 102 with the heat index outside, I had to turn my space heater on because I was so cold my nose was running. And I wasn’t the only one.

My office is fucking freezing and it adds to my already intense misery at being there for eight+ hours a day. We’re also not allowed to have bare legs so I have to sweat wearing stockings as I walk in from the train. It’s like my office wants us to be at maximum misery.

As someone who is constantly freezing inside, A THOUSAND TIMES YES. I would be way more productive if I didn't alternate typing with one hand while warming the other on my thigh. I also hate dressing appropriately for the day's weather, but having to carry a heavy sweater to be ok indoors.

Can he afford the trips? If he can afford them and not like sacrifice his kids quality of life then he should want to help pay them. I don't care how much you hate the mother , his kids happiness and having a relationship with their mom should take priority.

oh my god thank you for this.

This... is a wedding blog? Where people discuss the wild variations in wedding styles/preferences?

It’s a choice, and you’re a Debbie Downer. Why does everyone compare a wedding to traveling the world and a down payment on a house? What if I’ve already done those things and STILL want to throw a wedding. Is that allowed? Should I adopt 5 children instead and send them all to elite colleges? Should I write you a…

OMG PEOPLE WANT TO MAKE CHOICES THAT AREN’T MY CHOICES! What even is your comment? Are you 12?

Thank you. I know my wedding is about marrying the person I love, but my family and his family and WE want to throw a big wedding and spend money so that people we love (and people we don’t really know) can come have a really fun, awesome evening with food and drinks and music and celebrate with us! And whether you go…

How did you guys get around this? It’s too late for me, because my wedding is in two weeks, so I am locked in, but every time I called a vendor, I was internally like, “Don’t say wedding, don’t say wedding,” and then they’d answer the phone, and I would just scream, “IT’S A WEDDING!” OK, it wasn’t quite that bad, but…

Are you KIDDING? A pizza food truck dinner sounds fun, delicious, and memorable. And it’s cheaper, too? GO FOR IT. As long as you provide tables for everyone to sit and relax at so they don’t have to eat while standing, and make sure there’s a quiet, collected moment of everyone sitting down to toast and whatever…

Seriously. Good for you, but don’t humblebrag.

Don't humblebrag, it's unseemly.