Meanwhile, it was no surprise to a lot of Torontonian women when the XOJane post came out over a year ago...

I keep my DJ headphones in mine. My husband keeps dice in his.

To be fair, if I had done something in my early 20s and was given a contract that said "don't do X", it might not occur to me that it was retroactive.

Seriously. Given that he's not the only President to have affairs while in office, it's stunning to think that he was on the verge of being impeached for it. Illegal wiretapping isn't on the same level as cheating on your wife. In no way am I saying that cheating is A-OK, because it's not, but it's not a betrayal of…

Hehe, my Toronto-centricity is showing :P And if you're speaking of the one I think you are, I had the good fortune to visit it a few years back. The sky seemed so huge, I wished I had a wide-angle lens to take it all in. Beautiful place.

When I was little I had some similar experiences. I really didn't want to hug people just because my parents told me to. It led me to feel like everybody would violate my boundaries, sooner or later.

I was going to make a similar comment about FCKH8 being a big ol' bucket o' fail. Why support an org that doesn't support the people they claim to represent? Eff that, in the ear.

Enh...Toronto's not spotless, that's for sure. I've been here almost 20 years, and I've seen needles, prostitutes, used condoms, guys pissing in alleys (and one dude taking a whiz on the door to someone's apartment right on Queen Street - I yelled at him for it; that's someone's home. Go back into the bar that…

We used to have a bowl of pennies beside the bowl of candy when we were shelling out at my house, because kids would get Unicef boxes at school to take with them trick-or-treating. You'd give a kid a piece of candy, and a handful of pennies for their Unicef box. Day after Halloween, kid brings the Unicef box back to…

That's one thing that's surprised me - now that I'm quit, when someone gets into the elevator and they're coming back from having a smoke, I can smell the reek of it on them, and all I can think is, "Oh shit, I smelled like that." Dismay and embarrassment all over :/

As someone who smoked for about 20 years, and is fairly recently quit, I didn't find it gross unless it was someone else's, or stale, or incredibly strong. If it was faint, or my own cigarette, I either didn't notice, or didn't mind it. Many of my older relatives smoked, and so I had some positive associations to the…

Horrifying and incredibly selfish o_o

Messing with Felicia Day is not okay. Doxxing anyone because you don't like their politics isn't okay, but she seems like a sweet person and this really upsets me. People are such assholes :(

Re. TSwift's tracklist: I thought it was a playlist of songs she put together that she liked in 1989, and then I realized she…

She was so worried about it happening, too. Christ :(

Agreed. If the family didn't tell the public how she died, I figured that they wanted to keep it private. TMZ swooping in and buying the details is disrespectful...but I guess that's what they do. *sigh*

I thought the one of Obama brushing off his shoulder was badass, but Aretha has decades of don't-give-a-fuck on him. Also, I want that dress in my size. Stunning.

I hear you. I'm all about the layers once it hits mid-October.

They do make nice dress-casual pants.

Margaret Thatcher! And Andrea Yates :/

All I can think of is that Yardley is a soap, and Bray is what donkeys do >_<