I had a prof in university who dealt with sex offenders for her “ real job”, with a specialization in paedophilia. She mentioned a dude who came in to her office who came in, looked her in the eye, and said he was sexually attracted to children, but it was wrong, what could he do? Buddy had a developmental disorder,…
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Retire, old man, you’re fucking useless. You can cluck your dessicated tongue and wag your bony finger at Trump’s antics all you want, but you don’t actually do a goddamn thing about it.
As someone who has had a considerable amount of sexual encounters, I can not imagine any possible situation in which I would think it would be normal or appropriate to tell someone I thought I’d given their child an orgasm.
If you’re a white person, and you’re not a professor of linguistics giving a seminar on the history of racial epithets to postgrads, stop it. Stop it now. Whatever the situation, even in “irony” [and from your perspective without malice], you’ve radically misjudged the mood. Stop it.
Awwwww well, good looking at the brightside?
Do you want to go for a walk?
The “We have no options!” line really resonated with me, haha. I’m 35 too and it just ain’t gonna happen. Moreover, I don’t curr. Even in dating I feel no need to look a certain way anymore. It’s like “this is what you get, bud. Not interested? Cool, move it along.”
Oh Paris. Rebel. Rebel against clothes AND those pesky capital letters.
I question that. This seems extremely performative.
A movement of being healthier apparently includes smoking....okay got it. :eye roll:
Paris, if your body is a temple, then STOP SMOKING.
“Being naked makes us human” is one of those dumb as fuck things people who think they’re deep and meaningful say.
The idea that it is riskier for men to ask for an open relationship flies in the face of the whole “Man murders wife in jealous rage” thing that has happened.............................throughout history.
My boyfriend and I are poly. He told me he was poly when we started, so I was like “Sure?”
My mom once said she thinks it would be ideal if married people took a monthly “night off” from each other, and you just don’t tell each other what happened. As a married woman myself, I totally think that would work for me, but my husband would never go for it. It would drive him mad. Ideally, if it wouldn’t hurt…
I wonder if it’s that men tend to get the better deal out of relationships (http://www.health.harvard.edu/newsletter_article/marriage-and-mens-health) and so would have fewer incentives to open up the arrangement.
The drop in interest, to me, has more to do with finding out that your male partner is also a child you have to take care of. Women do more “work” in relationships than some (not all!) men and that leads to strain. By work, I mean social relationships with other couples, house cleaning, child rearing, and so on.
The better and more interesting question is who’s pulling the strings and revealing this now?
Here’s my Kremlinological theory: