You can be bitter and learn at the same time. Feelings can be complicated, like visual cues.

I fully agree. This should never have become the thing it became. It took away from the #metoo movement IMO.

From the original article...

He was publicly embarrassed, because his date wouldn’t go home. She went home with him. She engaged in oral sex with him. She asked him to stop and he did. Instead of going home, she stayed and watched TV. She has agency too.