He’s a man on an island

I would absolutely wear a Sexy Handmaiden costume for Halloween. If anybody wants to make a Sexy Handmaiden costume for a 6'8", 320 lbs, mixed-race dude, hit me up.

I still think Sexy Handmaiden is the most hilariously ridiculous costume imaginable.

No need to worry, once Ben gets back in there, he’ll make this team perform one way or another.

Me too, but did you see the leaders they rustled up before Trudeau? Yeesh.

If it were Scheer or Bernier, we’d be livid because they have histories of actual racism, not just this weird costume fetish. Trudeau’s been PM for four years, we don’t have to worry about what’s in his “heart of hearts” or if he has any racist bones in his body. We have four years of actual governance to judge him…

What you did there... I see it.

It’s probably not a great idea to worry too much about policing who gets to feel bad about their bodies. Nerd culture is dealing with a lot of this BS right now, who gets to be a real gamer, who’s just pretending to be a nerd to get attention, who’s too conventionally attractive to have been a nerd. Much of a sympathet…

WHATEVER. My mom says I’m cool.

If the MiL has already been confronted, the only solution is enforcing boundaries. When she’s inappropriate, say “That’s not appropriate.” When she’s rude, say so. Interact with her like you would any other adult. Tell her what you won’t tolerate, then don’t tolerate it.

I don’t know enough about game tactics to say, so what is the root of Germany’s recent struggles? Personnel, tactics, or execution?

Fuck, I love “smooth-brained” as an insult.

I suppose my issue isn’t so much with how you’ve defined shittiness, but in the way you’ve created a false dichotomy: by your thinking, there’s true monsters and then there’s shitty people. Juxtaposing monstrousness with shittiness, and then labeling Brown among the latter, gives him a pass or at least establishes…

I obviously don’t have much to say about being a tall girl in high school (not a girl), but being a tall dude wasn’t great in high school, and I’m sure the tall girls had it worse. Adolescents are mostly desperate to fit in, which draws them to the norm, not the unicorn.

This is just differing definitions of shittiness. I’d say your uncle is a crank, and in my opinion being a dismissive crank isn’t shitty; unlikeable and probably somewhat disrespectful, sure, but on the whole probably still not a bad person.

Having read the SI piece, I feel reasonably comfortable saying Brown isn’t some kind of monster, he’s just shitty. He doesn’t like people, he doesn’t trust anyone, he uses and screws people over and rationalizes it by saying that he’s been used and screwed over. He’s a shitty dude. And he seems unwell.

+1 Rapistberger

I think it’s just a folksy home cure: if you can’t stop powerful runs, 10 bananas should fix you right up!

Wow, do I have some things to tell you about Pocahontas!

I’m not saying anything about the actions of either of them specifically; I know why victims of sexual violence don’t always report it. But you were just making the inverse of the same argument. I feel like “Why didn’t he go public with the real story of cheating on his girlfriend?” is pretty self-explanatory - it…